Please....serious answers apply. People who understand what i was and am going through with loving someone would know how hard it is to pull away from love..which..enslaves a person and in such a way..that it could leave a person trapped. Now, i have done really well for a while. but when she calls me, i melt. I am wanting to know...why would she call me? and, at 11pm at night? this is not normal for her! Girls, why would you call a guy who was in love with you after a long time? Guys, why would you call your ex, especially if you used to date her?
2006-11-19 16:30:32 · 17 answers · asked by trapper 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'd say she's feeling lonely and want you back. If you still love her, move your butt out of that computer chair and ask her to have lunch or dinner with you. I wish you two best of luck. Remember, there may not be any 2nd chances like this.
2006-11-19 16:34:09 · answer #1 · answered by Thilina Guluwita 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
We could have lots to talk about...seirosuly. Im going through exactly what you are except im the girl. Now i dont know this girls personality or anything but a late call usually means S*X. She must miss it, either that or she genuinely wants to talk to you see how your doing. Maybe shes lonely and hasnt found a new guy to mess with so shes going back to you. I know i should be telling myself this advice...but trust me. Dont melt. The only way to egt over someone id to stop contact....if only i listened to myself. My ex watever called me at 3 the pat two weekends...which both times i said no. But.....its bringing up alot of old feelings and temptations. now wen i talk to him its awkward i think cuz his pride or soemthing. Anyways ya
2006-11-20 00:50:41 · answer #2 · answered by kittykatB4 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have kept your distance for a while she may think that you've had enough time to get over her and are now able to be "just friends". Or she was lonely. Some girls just like the fact that they can manipulate a guys emotions and it makes them feel better about themself if a guy is grieving them. Or she just wants to make sure you are still there in case she needs a rebound. Maybe she really misses you, but be careful.
2006-11-20 00:40:29 · answer #3 · answered by Deanna 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would/have called a guy after breaking up and after an extended period of time because I still liked/loved him. If you haven't already, as her why she called. If she beats around the bush, tell her straight up how you feel (you still like her and find it unusual that she is calling).
You never know, she may still like you, but is testing the waters before telling you how she feels in hopes of not getting hurt.
Remember: Honesty is the best policy!
2006-11-20 00:36:17 · answer #4 · answered by AllieAR81 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what did she talk about. cuz if it was a question about like a class you both have the next day... but on the other hand if she wanted to talk she is probably interested, i know i try and talk to my ex sometimes cuz i cant help being attracted to her, and often for a girl they like being wanted so if she knows you want her she will call you to make her feel better. best option is just to ask her what is going on between you two. she will most likely be honest if you just straight up ask her
2006-11-20 00:35:26 · answer #5 · answered by go away 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't call an ex unless I still liked her. Women think differently, however, and it could be simply she is comfortable with you. Try steering the conversation to "what if we got back together" or let her know you miss her, if that's the case, and see how she reacts.
2006-11-20 00:33:44 · answer #6 · answered by Beatpuppet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she ditched you she probably has changed her mind and thinks what you had together wasnt so bad after all.
Dont go back to her man, it will only end again worse than last time. Call your mates. Go out and meet some new women.
2006-11-20 00:33:26 · answer #7 · answered by f1antasyman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lonely missing him. don't you know thwe number one song right now? it goes
Honey why you calling me so late.
It's kinda hard to talk right now.
Why are you crying? Is everything ok.
I gotta whisper cause I can't be too loud.
My girls' in the next room
Sometimes i wish she was you
I guess we never really moved on
it feels so good hearin your voice say my name
it sounds so sweet coming from the lips of an angel
hearing those words it makes me week
i never want to say good bye but girl you make it hard to be faithful
with the lips of an angel
that song is why!
2006-11-20 00:35:29 · answer #8 · answered by L.J. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say that meet her and check with her, because if she has called you that means that she still have some feeling for you and maybe she wants to come back in your life but is hesitant. speak with her thats the best way to solve this issue, its better to solve the issue as to regret it afterwards
2006-11-20 00:41:37 · answer #9 · answered by riya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my ex used to call or text me everytime he went out and got drunk and wanted sex.... so basically his c**k was making the call/writing the text..... mmmm would explain the terrible spelling lol....... seriously though it would be lovely for you if she wanted to get back with you and it was all hearts and flowers but life isnt like that..... be very careful you were starting to do ok without her....... look after number one first!
2006-11-20 00:38:18 · answer #10 · answered by juicylucie60 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋