About a year ago, I started talking to this guy on the internet (he lived in a different state) which led to him coming to meet/visit me for a weekend while en route to his new job and new state he was already planning on moving to. We had a great connection and really cared/liked each other. We spoke 2 more times after he left, before personal reasons kept us from talking for a year. I called him on a whim one night and he actually answered. He told me that he could only offer a friendship right now. We have been talking for about two weeks now, but he has a live in girlfriend. He sends me texts all day while at work and calls me on his way to and from work. He keeps saying how he wants to see me again and acts like he wants to be with me still/again. I sent him a song lyric that basically said that I wanted him to love me which he replied with "Trust me I do."
I am confused and not sure if I am leading to much into this. HELP!
All advice, is GREATLY APPRECIATED!!
2006-11-19 16:29:12 · 7 answers · asked by AllieAR81 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Man are you ever gullible. He's living with another girl. He is a scum bag. If you are that desperate, there are tons more just like him right here on this answer thing. Even me!
2006-11-19 16:33:25 · answer #1 · answered by rudytute 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Uh oh, this sounds like the guy wants to hook up with you and still have his girlfriend. A lot of guys will always look for easy ways to cheat, especially after being with someone fulltime(moving in together and being with them all the time) it sounds like you are offering an easy opportunity. I could obviously be wrong on this but as a guy I seriously think it is what it is.
2006-11-19 16:33:36 · answer #2 · answered by pullinstuntssmokingblunts 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He has a live in girlfriend!!!!!! What are you thinking? If he screws around with her, he WILL screw with you too!Tell him to get lost, you are wasting your time, time that could be used to find Mr. Right, not MR. LOSER!!!!! Good luck and think about it, this guy is a two timer, to say the very least! You deserve better!!!!!!
2006-11-19 16:36:00 · answer #3 · answered by bluebustercyndy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advie.....Stay away from him,and DO NOT test message him anymore.
He has a live in g/f,so that means he is NOT available.
Trust me if he was at all intersted in you,he would of stayed single and made himself available til you were ready.
Yeah stay clear,he now has someone else.
Take care P.S....find yourself a new man.
2006-11-19 16:34:26 · answer #4 · answered by sunflower2052002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HIS INTENTIONS ARE TO HAVE HIS CAKE AND HIS PIE AS
WELL. HE HAS A LOT OF NERVE TO WANT TO SPENT TIME WITH YOU BUT HE HAS A LIVE IN GIRLFRIEND. WHAT THE
HELL. COME ON NOW. YOU NEED TO KICK HIM TO THE
CURB LIKE THE LOOSER THAT HE IS. OF COURSE HE CANT
OFFER ANYTHING RIGHT NOW, HE HAS TO TRY TO JUGGLE
THE FACT THAT HE PLAYING GAMES WITH BOTH OF YOU.,
2006-11-19 16:44:48 · answer #5 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he just wanted a friend to talk to.
friends are blessings.
dont expect too much from him.. remember he has a live in gf
2006-11-19 16:34:43 · answer #6 · answered by cramp 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's an asshole , he wants the best of both worlds. You need to cut him loose. Let him get a reality check.
2006-11-19 16:33:29 · answer #7 · answered by franklin g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋