ummm how can i become less shy i know i should just not care about what people think but when i was four i was in a terrible house fire and i have skin graphs on my hands i've always been embarresed and can't get over it what do i do?
2006-11-19 16:25:54 · 11 answers · asked by Lizzie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the only one that has to accept you--is YOU!! remember, carpi deium! sieze the day! besides what is the worst that can happen? I used to be shy myself, now I get out there and try, come to think of it, I would not have my wonderful kids if I stayed shy
also, (just a thought)
find a councelor or confidaunt to talk out these feeling with and help you release the fears burned into your mind. I have PTSD from sevier abuse as a teen, I know what it is like to suffer a trama that scars the mind as well as the body, and I see my councelor regularly. there is no shame in such things.
2006-11-19 16:40:42 · answer #1 · answered by fullmoonwolf4real 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most shy people have a reason for being shy. For some people, it's their weight. For some it's their physical appearance. It could be anything. For you, it's your hands.
There's no easy way to get over it, what you have to do is just accept it. Just realize that your hands are a part of you and they're not going to change and maybe you can even learn to love them because you're unique! It's really something that you have to put behind you.
You're awesome regardless, and the sooner you realize that the sooner you'll start to feel more confident and less shy. Just walk into the room like you own the place and you'll glow! You don't have to feel so insecure, it's okay.
Your hands aren't you, they're only a part of you. You're so much more! :)
2006-11-20 00:34:14 · answer #2 · answered by koala988 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt care if your hands had scars. In my opinion only a bad personality can make someone look repulsive. If someone cant deal with the scars then they arent worth talking to . You are all good do what you feel!
2006-11-20 00:34:07 · answer #3 · answered by b 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If people make that big of a deal because of your hands, then they're dipsh*ts... I would like to think people don't care that much about appearance, but I guess there are some that are just that shallow.
2006-11-20 00:33:43 · answer #4 · answered by F.J. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey just feel good about yourself! You are no1. Dont focus on your hands..Look at your face...Look at all you features ...Your an awesome person! People are igornant ...when they go to answer these questions sometimes...I think people are just curious as to what happened to your hands...they dont think anything Bad! If they say anything ignore them..because evidently they have Little Minds
2006-11-20 00:39:02 · answer #5 · answered by missamerican_pie007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wear stylish gloves.
2006-11-20 00:29:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I know how you feel, it's an anxiety you have to over come.
2006-11-20 00:35:03 · answer #7 · answered by Casper77mc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try chat on cam, you can hid your hands.
2006-11-20 00:28:31 · answer #8 · answered by rudytute 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
alcohal. also talk with ur doc u can get anti-depresents for the anxiety.
2006-11-20 00:28:14 · answer #9 · answered by skijon 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
chop off your hands
2006-11-20 00:27:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋