i am 21 old with Cerebral Palsy i can walk and do everything i just walk funny i have a felony for robbery when i was 18 for a coat that fall off during a fight and then a few months later lost a finger i have been tease my whole life i am about to start college but feel like ending everything life just seems to get worst every year will it every get better i am just about done with everything
2006-11-19 15:45:52 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Other - Health
Yes, it will get better. Life is hard. For some, it is harder, much harder, than others. I firmly believe sometimes you are being tested (by God, by fate, by nature...whatever you want to call it) because you are being prepared for something special later in life. That something special might come next month, next year, or in 10 years. It would be a shame if you gave up before you found out what that 'something special' was. You are not a winner because you fall. You are a winner because you always get back up and try again. Please, don't stop trying!
"If one dream should fall and break into a thousand pieces, never be afraid to pick one of those pieces up and begin again." Flavia Weedn
2006-11-19 15:55:09 · answer #1 · answered by Michael H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey man, don't even consider suicide as a way out, as you can see by just about all of these answers, people are there for you. there are a lot of good people in this world other than the ones that have teased or made fun of you for whatever reason. Don't let the bad outweigh the good in this world for you. Explore more good and you will find it. Embrace the friends you have and seek new ones and enjoy the rest of your life rather than end it. Once on bottom the only way is up. If you ever need a friend, drop me a few lines on an email and I would be glad to chat with you. I look to start some classes soon as I see we have that in common. Ever need a new friend my email is RodneyByrd77@yahoo.com. Hope you make the right choice in life.
2006-11-20 00:09:15 · answer #2 · answered by rodney b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope that you are not going to a local college. It sounds as if you are in an area of idiots! Try some place new, and change your attitude! You will be surprised at how well you will be received, even if you stay local, if you just change your attitude. I'll bet that if you stopped and looked at the positive aspects of your life, block out all of the negative for a minute, you will realize on your own that you have a good life. How lucky you are that you are starting college! So many won't be. AND, no matter what has happened in the past, you are about to open a totally new chapter in your life - let everything else go and pretend it doesn't exist. Start fresh and look for the good things each day before you go to bed.
If you still feel so down, you need to talk with your counselor at school to find out what resources are available to you. You will be surprised that there are many options open to you if you're willing to ask for help.
Good luck!
2006-11-19 23:59:17 · answer #3 · answered by joycaro 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm homeless, and I have AIDS, and I can relate to your feelings. I've had suicidal feelings for a long time. Wanna know what helps me?
1. The idea that my dog and cats would suddenly have no Dad.
2. The pain it would cause my loved-ones.
3. The loss of potential creativity. I am an artist, journalist, and filmmaker. I feel that I have those talents for a reason, and that reason has not yet been fulfilled. So I have to stick around.
4. If I killed myself, I wouldn't be able to celebrate The Holidays, or smoke a joint, or see all the Star Trek series' that I haven't gotten around to yet.
5. Don't go where you're not invited.
Please speak about your feelings with a friend or counselor. And God bless you.
2006-11-19 23:59:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry you are having such a terrible time. Although it seems that you have reached the end of your rope, that is just not true.Remember if others laugh at you that is their problem, not yours, I have seen younger people that you in much worse shape. I worked in a nursing facility for handicapped children. Some of those "kids" as we called them would love to walk, even funny. They couldn't feed themselves, talk, go t school or even make their needs known. Yet they could smile when we talked to them. Remember that sucide is a permanent solution for a temporary problem. Nobody ever commits suicide without leaving behind a lot of grief and self blame for the loved ones left. Pray, pray, pray. God Bless
2006-11-20 00:17:14 · answer #5 · answered by Mary L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a great place to get involved with on a regular basis. You can pick a category that you are confident with and you can help people. Some of these people are saints compared to me, but I love the guy that said "Don't go where you aren't invited." I am also a firm believer in fate and if you were going to kill yourself, that maybe that's your fate. I know, no one else wants me to say that. Life is so tough for EVERYONE! My best friend got a suicide call from her mom a while back and she got pissed at her mom and told her "I have no sympathy for suicide! Do not tell me you aren't strong enough to face the challenges of life." And it's true. There should be no sympathy for suicide. Of course you don't want sympathy and it's not about other people...it's about you. Just hang in there another day. I have said I don't want to have kids because I couldn't stand the idea of getting them to their 18th birthday....going all that way to get them to adulthood (where you are at) and then losing them (for whatever reason.)
2006-11-20 00:12:34 · answer #6 · answered by Stephanie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't ever give up on yourself, You can walk, go to college get a good degree and show those losers what you are made of. Our bodies are only a shell, just remember that. DONOT take your own life. You are worth everything, living, having a great job. Yoiu will be appreciated one day. In school High school, they can be cruel. One day they grow up and either have a child with cerebral palsy or downsyndrome or anything can happen. They will remember how they treated you. Don't give up on you. God never does.
2006-11-19 23:54:27 · answer #7 · answered by missy j 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It may sound lame but just pray...and think it could be worse. You could be me...Im 32 pregnant, lost my husband, and my job and Im days away from getting evicted from my house. My car was stolen last week and I have 3 other kids...yet through and by the grace of God I make it each day the best I can. I dont let people or materialistic ideals hold me up anymore, but mostly I wont let the devil win...which is what you will be doing by giving in.....imagine spending an eternity in hell reliving all the things that have brought you to the point your at now....is your eternal happiness worth it. Go to college meet new and wonderful people, seek the support of your community services...there are millions of things and people willing to help...just look at all then people writing you now. If your that bad off write me....trust me Ive been and am going through worse...but I love my soul to much to give it to the devil so he can taunt me for eternity....thats a mighty long time.
2006-11-20 00:01:30 · answer #8 · answered by Patricia S 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Dont give up yet you will find college much different than high school with lots less teasing and problematic behavior by childish young people. Real life will be better to you than high school was. Just wait a while and see if it doesnt get better. You might talk to a counselor about your apparent suicidal feelings. Get some help to deal with things.
2006-11-19 23:55:47 · answer #9 · answered by elaeblue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my little sister has cp, my aunt is mr, and i work with adults with dd (cp, autism, downs, etc.). i love my sister and my job more than anything, and though im not in your shoes, i can see where you are comming from. people stare at my sister all the time and i always have some rude comment to throw back at them, in hopes they will realize what they are doing. it offends me to no end when people use the word "retarted". you cant take everything people say and do to heart. life throws curve balls at you one after another and killing yourself is not the answer by any means. im 20 and going thru some sh*t right now myself. thats just how it goes. things will get better..no matter how down you may get, there is always something to bring you back up...its just a matter of finding it. get away from the idea about killing yourself..thats a silly idea and it wont solve anything. im here if you need to talk. remember, everything happens for a reason.
2006-11-20 00:03:02 · answer #10 · answered by annie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋