And i feel like it was a mistake. We have'nt talked since i did it which was today? im hoping he will see that he loves me and i was the best thing that happened to him and he might change his ways for me. all i want is for him to stop lieing should i call him. Is there any ways to get him to call me without him knowing im doing it? should i go where i know he will be so he see's me therefore cant get over me? I am in love with him i think im willing to live with his ways now but i cant just call and ask for him back beacause he's the kind of guy that wouldn't want me back. I think its over forever and im so scared i cant imagine my life without him :(
2006-11-19 15:43:14 · 17 answers · asked by snowballpoint 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he really cared about you, he wouldn't lie and guys rarely ever change, but if youre ok with that, then call and talk to him.
2006-11-19 15:46:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I honestly think you should sleep on it. Don't call him today. It isn't fair to either of you. If he isn't the type of guy who wouldn't want you back, then why would you want him in your life? You need someone who will make you feel special, important, and loved. You must have dumped him for a good reason or two, so I wouldn't recommend settling for someone who isn't your ideal. You are worth it. I believe that everyone is compatible with many people, but that we have to work on a relationship to fall in love with the partner we chose. But for this to work, you do have to be compatible first. If he doesn't value your relationship, he isn't worth it. Find someone else who is. You have time, you have options, don't be scared to be alone. I think we all need some time between relationships to self-reflect and evaluate the traits we seek in a partner. Good luck with your search, just don't settle. You're worth more!
2006-11-19 15:51:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just move on. I broke up with my bf today as well. Basically for similar reasons--there are things that he won't change and I can't live with anymore. It sucks and I miss him but I've been through this before with other guys and it gets better. Trust me. He will not change and there is someone out there who will give you what you need without them having to change a thing or you having to sacrifice what you need--they will just be the right guy for you. Stick it out. It's just a little hard at first to get used to not having that person around but eventually it's okay. He won't change. If he is not right for you then he is just not right for you. Focus your energies on something else.
2006-11-19 15:51:46 · answer #3 · answered by c m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off....BREATHE! Take a day or two or a week to really think it through. Emotions are high right now and it's hard to think straight. If you broke up with him for "his ways" then eventually those "ways" will come back up down the road and probably still cause problems. There is usually always a good reason why we break up with people (unless we're talking junior high or high school drama) so take time to realize it's probably a good reason you broke up with him.
2006-11-19 15:50:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm guessing you're young and it hurts like hell. Sounds like you wanted to shake him up by breaking up...never a good idea. Also, before you start running back and trying to get him back re-think why it wasn't working for you. You can't change somebody nor should you change who you are for somebody. You're just reeling from the hurt at present. Give yourself some time....see if the pain eases a bit. It may take a bit of getting over. Good Luck kiddo.
2006-11-19 15:48:07 · answer #5 · answered by MillwoodsGal 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you have to ask yourself why you dumped him in the first place. If you did it because of him lying to you, then you should have tried talking to him first. Go to the places where you know where he will be. Try to make him jealous where he wants you back. Then if that doesn't work, you may have lost him forever. But first try calling him and see if he will talk to you. Try to explain to him what is going on. You never know. He may talk to you and explain everything. Do everything in your power to get him back.
2006-11-19 15:50:42 · answer #6 · answered by BrandyB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first few days will be hard..but you got the courage to end things with him for a reason....he was lying to you. Therefore he is not a good bf. And from experience...guys don't change so don't waste your time hoping he will. Good luck! And don't call him! (As hard as that will be)
2006-11-19 15:47:53 · answer #7 · answered by Stephanie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you want permission to stalk him? Or are you missing your lying, uncompatible boyfriend.
The best thing you have done is to break up with him, now don't second guess yourself. Yes it's really scary to be alone, but the feeling passes and you just may get to know yourself better!
2006-11-19 15:50:03 · answer #8 · answered by prairiegurrl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So, you went to next, have been given a bag and caught all your much less costly Primark knickers in it to cover your shame? truthful sufficient. Starbucks have dazzling coffee too. Sounds all very suitable to me. nicely executed, have a random famous man or woman.
2016-10-04 03:55:56 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you will have a lousy life without him-as you say he is a lier and your a enabler-till you let Jesus into your heart to forgive sins and become your friend-you have to have anther God why not pick one as Jesus says -Satan cometh to decieve destroy and kill and is the father of lies, -this guy seems perfect for you-cause once I was just like him too-prayin for you-in Jesus amazing grace that saved a wretch like me. John chapter 3
2006-11-19 15:47:23 · answer #10 · answered by ben 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋