We went for a romantic dinner, then dancing, then I met his friends at a house party for the first time. I'm very different from them. They talked to me a bit, but not alot. When they did, they were nice and asked me questions. I really like this guy, but I'm worried his friends weren't impressed. I was very nice to them even though we really don't have much in common. At the end of the date he told me had an awesome time and couldn't wait to see me again next week. Well, now it's the next day and he hasn't called. Should I be worried? I know I shouldn't care what his friends think, but how would they normally show if they liked me or didn't like me? I could just be paranoid...
2006-11-19 15:38:18 · 12 answers · asked by Katy S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know i dont like phones.. i like talkin in person or maybe online. but remember guys get side tracked.. it is sunday.. there is football on maybe he is gonna call after San Diego is done whoopin Denver. But just give it a shot you shouldnt pick a guy bc your friends like or dont like him.. your the one dating him. You should only be worried after you guys , "spend the night" and he doesnt call
2006-11-19 15:41:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that since you guys have been going out on all these great dates he might not have called you the next day to not make it so noticeable that he's really feeling you ya know play it cool who knows as far as you know he could have just been busy, maybe working to pay for all these wonderful dates he's been taking you on and as far as the friends go it is important to make a good impression but, in the end it's his choice not his friends and if he allows his friends to change his opinions of you and you haven't even done anything wrong then clearly he is not for you. Oh and also you mentioned you and his friends don't have much in common and if ya man has any common sense he would know that not all his friends are gonna get along with you the world just isn't that way
2006-11-19 16:01:25 · answer #2 · answered by ♥ tweety ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand what the problem was. You met his friends, they talked to you...after 5 dates, what did you expect them to do? You don't know how many other dates he's brought around, so they may not care much unless you end up sticking around.
You're being paranoid. Go do other things and stop thinking about it. Get to know him more before you worry about his friends. You really don't know if he's "awesome" or not, you've only spent about 25-30 hours with him.
2006-11-19 15:42:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Isn't the insecurity in the beggining of dating someone fun! :( I bet you have nothing to worry about. I assume the party was last night and he said this week you'll hang out..so I bet he'll call you tomorrow evening sometime. Good luck!! Keep us posted as to when he calls!!! I've totally been there...oh wait..I've been with my bf two months now and still wonder when he'll call sometimes...
2006-11-19 15:44:02 · answer #4 · answered by Stephanie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe they're reserving judgement. I don't always know exactly how I feel about someone right after I meet them. At least they weren't hostile. I don't know if you should be worried or not because I don't know how often he calls you. If he did dump you because his friends didn't like you on the basis of one conversation, then you are better off without him.
2006-11-19 15:41:23 · answer #5 · answered by cotopaximary 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're thinking too much!!!
Men aren't all that complicated. If things work out, it's because they were meant to. You can't change his friends, and you shouldn't change yourself to be with him. It's possible that his friends were cold towards you because they are protective of him.
Don't worry about it, because men HATE women that over-think everything. Just go with the flow and let the cards fall where they may.
2006-11-19 15:47:09 · answer #6 · answered by Chellebelle78 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fisrst of all you should verify if he has written the letter or not because after I study contained in the newspaper that a pair has divorced because someone replaced into writting them letters adverse to at least one yet another. then in case you confrim that he has written the letter, then call him again and ask him if he nonetheless needs you or not because you should continually attempt to compromise and then in case you observe of that there's no way then divorce! thanks!
2016-11-29 07:20:16 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are looking too deep into things; it might be awkward for them, or they might not be very talkative. If he truely likes you, he won't care about what other people think about the relationship; he will only care about what you think.
Zach Strass
2006-11-19 15:41:23 · answer #8 · answered by Zach S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, if you were yourself, don't worry if the friends like you or not, granted it's easier but so what. You aren't dating all of them, you are dating your man. Be cool, don't fret!
2006-11-19 15:48:39 · answer #9 · answered by Rhode Island Red 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not the family you need to impress
2006-11-19 15:40:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋