There is a boy on my rowing team that I just started Coxing and I have a baby crush on him. He is adorable and a really nice guy. The other day after we just won the race he tilted his head over and said, "We won this race for you"
(It was my first time coxing a race)
@ the party afterwards we all got very intoxicated and we start dancing are lips got extreamly close and other boys in the boat pulled him off me and out of the room to start yelling at him for even trying to kiss me. The coaches told the boys about ten times and myself that the rowers shouldn't hook up with the Coxwain cause it can cause drama. (I have maintaned myself well the alcohol got to me)
Later that night after the party I want to his dorm room and got close to kissing him but he stopped me and said it wasn't a good idea but he wanted to really badly.
Do I just try to pretend that I am not into him and he isn't into me, cause I see him everyday @ pratice.
Would you give up or maybe secreatly try?
2006-11-19 15:28:17 · 8 answers · asked by Coxie Megan 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well honey, that sounds pretty stupid to me. i mean i understand the coaches thing, but why do they have such a dumb rule.
they sat drama, well drama happens everyday. there is all kinds of different types of drama.
well i guess you guys will just have to get to gether when your not with the team.
the coaches can't tell you want to do then. and if they do. well then maybe you should quit the team. and tell the coaches to kiss you bum,bum, let them go with out a couple of players,
2006-11-19 15:40:18 · answer #1 · answered by tabatha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like the both of you have a common interest, each other. There are rules, what do you stand to lose by breaking the rules? Is the relationship worth it? Before you both decide to go for it, I would be sure you both want it, get a friend to ask questions, e-mail ,just find out a bit where he stands before you jump in. In other words don't make a fool of yourself and get in trouble too. Time to think wisely before you jump, the only thing you stand to lose is a little bit of babytime! Good luck!
2006-11-19 15:43:04 · answer #2 · answered by grammadebi2002 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah i could see why hooking up might not be the best idea! Maybe the other boys know something you don't! Is he a player?
I say go for it....if you want a hot steamy hook up!
If you do it could be weird at practice. Believe me i know!!
2006-11-19 15:38:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you girls do this. You know it's against the rules but you persist.
When you get caught, guess who wears it. Not you, the boy does. Then when he says he has to call it off then you girls get all cranky & start screaming rape or being nasty to him.
Best thing they can do is replace YOU.
2006-11-19 15:36:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the words of Doctor Octavius "If you keep something as complicated as love a secret, it can make you sick" try bending the rules? (read: talk to him, let him know your feelings, then secretly date!)
2006-11-19 15:33:04 · answer #5 · answered by R A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks like you're up the creek without a paddle!
2006-11-19 15:32:38 · answer #6 · answered by MisterRE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they have rules for that!?!? If the team means that much to him, don't force him. could you two get together if one of you wasn't on the team? try that.
2006-11-19 15:37:14 · answer #7 · answered by Peta Chips 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it who cares what the fuking res are u obviously like him and he liek u too ... screw the rules do it secretly!!
2006-11-19 16:47:42 · answer #8 · answered by alexaa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋