Im a 29 year old guy who likes an 18 year old girl... (pretty sure she likes me too) Is this gap too big? Should I search for a fellow 28 year old? Appreciate any advice, especially from males my age. Thanks
2006-11-19 15:28:00 · 15 answers · asked by michael m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Way too young!! You are probably settled down in a job, apartment maybe, while she is just setting out into the real world either working or college. She will want to go out, you are rounding 30 and let me tell ya, that gets boring. Cut it off now, it never works.
2006-11-19 16:05:33 · answer #1 · answered by Rhode Island Red 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-25 20:40:38 · answer #2 · answered by kassia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alot of people will say age doesn't matter, and alot of people will. I personally think it does, but not in the way you might take it. If you love someone, then age is just that age...but you have to remember, that since she is so young, she is going to want to experince life! So, you are not going to get a cute, young little housewife out of an 18 y/o (unless thats her personality..) So, she is going to be full of energy, and wanting to go out and explore life, and you being 28 might just hold her back! But, if you both really love each other, then this shouldn't matter! But since things can be new to her, don't take a "been there, done that" persona with her...just let her figure it out on her own!
All and all...have fun, make love, eat well and good luck!
2006-11-19 15:39:37 · answer #3 · answered by Pandora 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That's too big of an age difference. It may not seem like it now - but as your relationship progresses you will find that you really have very little in common. If you were both 10 years older it might work, but not at the ages you both are now.
2006-11-19 15:37:43 · answer #4 · answered by ghosthunter1962 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she's young and fresh. you should wait a couple of years until she has established herself. i am currently with a man who is 38 and i am 27. if i was 18 and he tried to holla @ me, he wouldn't have had a chance. but i have matured and am now able to handle a relationship. so let her explore the world and figure out exactly what she wants and maybe later on down the road she will be ready for what you have to offer her
2006-11-19 15:35:15 · answer #5 · answered by sweettee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always wonder what's wrong with guy who goes for teenage girls instead of grown women. At 18 she's done very little besides get out of high school. I suppose that's part of the appeal for you. She has so little life experience and has accomplished almost nothing, you appear to be worldly and wise to her.
Can she even go out for a drink with you?
2006-11-19 15:31:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i am a female, and 17, but i think love has no limits. age is just a number. she is only too young if she is under age. age really doesnt matter, as long as you enjoy being with eachother, and are fine with however mature they may be. i dont see anything wrong with it. go for it. who cares what ppl think. everyone is a hypocrite in their own way...
2006-11-19 15:35:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Her parents will probably hate you if they are any kind of parnets. They will assume you just want a young moldable piece of tail. Any guy can nail a younger girl. . . there really isn't much challenge there and you really are not equals. Shop for a biscuit your own age.
2006-11-19 15:31:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
yeah that's kind of a big gap, i guess for me, if just dating, maybe, but if you're planning on a long term thing, you better be worth it to her
2006-11-19 15:32:45 · answer #9 · answered by cat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say go for it. You only have one life to live and thousands to love. If you really want the relationship with this woman then you just gotta stay committed and stay true to yourself.
2006-11-19 15:52:08 · answer #10 · answered by Callie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋