I've never had a boyfriend and I am not one to make out with random guys. But the other night I got really drunk and made out with a someone and I don't know his name. I don't know this guy really well but my friend does. Should I feel embarrassed or guilty? I don't want people to think I am too easy. I don't know how I feel. Does anyone have any suggestions or stories??
2006-11-19 14:56:38 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you've never had a boyfriend, I assume you are young. If all you did was kiss him, big deal, move on, then quit drinking, next time you get drunk, you might end up pregnant.
Just because you kiss a guy who's name you don't know in a drunken moment is nothing to feel guilty about, provided all you did was kiss him. Don't sweat it. It's okay. If you ever come face to face with him, act like you don't remember, blame it on the booze. Or does he like you now?
2006-11-19 15:03:57 · answer #1 · answered by bellbottombleus 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be more concerned about the amount of liquor you are consuming which is helping for you to be more liberal about the people you go around kissing. That can be a pretty dangerous activity you are engaging in. How about one day you get drunk like that again and you happened to be really horny then you can easily end up in bed with someone without using protection and get some kind of disease, not that you can't get one from kissing but I think you need to be more responsible when you drink. Now going back to your question. Why do you feel guilty? Cause you know it wasn't the right thing to do. What should you do? Not do it again so that others don't end up thinking you ARE easy and most importantly so you don't get a disease.
2006-11-19 23:11:59 · answer #2 · answered by hilda c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you should not feel embarrassed or guilty. Everyone at some point and time has had a similar story happen to them. You are only human and as long as you liked it then nothing else matters. It does not make you easy just because you made out with someone.
2006-11-19 23:00:36 · answer #3 · answered by little bear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
eh, if you didn't have a boyfriend at the time, you're probably okay. What does your friend say this guy thought about it? Also, people won't think you're easy unless you sleep around. At least, I know I wouldn't haha making out with people is different than sleeping with them LOL Besides, why do you think there's a way you should be feeling? If you don't feel guilty or embarrassed, then that's okay! :D If the guy claims he was under the impression that you wanted to sleep with him, then he read way too much into it.
2006-11-19 23:03:04 · answer #4 · answered by High On Life 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let this one incident go, but don't let yourself get drunk enough to do that again. If it only happens once everyone will forget about it and life will move on, but if it happens a second time people will begin to talk and a third time -oh my gosh. I hope you learned something from this. There is an amount you can drink that won't do much to you, then a little more and you feel it, then even more and you can ruin your reputation. Be careful next time.
2006-11-19 23:07:46 · answer #5 · answered by boogie2510 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No don't feel guilty making out is fun as long as you and the other party are single, just don't use alcohol to have fun or as an excuse. Own up to what you do.
Don't drink so much that it will dull your judgement, being tipsy now and again can be fu, but no one likes a drunk.
2006-11-19 23:00:31 · answer #6 · answered by Sibbyym 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think you should be too worried. Aslong as you were in a safe enviroment and didnt put yourself in any danger like being left alone with a strange guy, then you have nothing to worry about. Everyone makes mistakes(if thats what you class it as) and we all learn from them...its a part of life. Just be glad to be alive and dont let the little things get you down:) take care:)
2006-11-19 23:09:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if all you did was make out with him then you have nothing to worry about!! don't let people get to you!!!! I have had something way worse happen to me I got drunk and lost my "V" card!!! but i don't feel guilty about it and i Don't care what people think about it i made a mistake and i have to live with that and i have accepted that and its all about you if you feel guilty then that's on you!! but keep your head up!! and know that everything happens for a reason!!!!
2006-11-19 23:10:57 · answer #8 · answered by socerchic2007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Assuming you're an adult....what do you have to feel guilty about? So what? But in the future, be more aware of your limit and protect yourself. That could have turned into a very dangerous situation. Have a good Day
2006-11-19 23:01:44 · answer #9 · answered by lilyvix 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this sounds too common these days. did you know that alcohol can make a person more attractive to another by 25%? thats alot. but i once did that and i didn't feel guilty or ashamed. i just felt like i now know what i am capable of doing. and if you like that feeling then keep on doing it. if you don't then just stop. no need to feel anything. its all in your head.
2006-11-19 23:00:54 · answer #10 · answered by goFish 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋