SHe wouldnt experiment and anal sounded interesting so i found someone wackier but i dont want to lose my girl.
2006-11-19 14:51:54 · 33 answers · asked by john s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You blew it my friend. If you really loved her you wouldn't have found someone to just experiment with. You can try appologizing, but she will probably never trust you again.
2006-11-19 14:54:57 · answer #1 · answered by Me 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I personally have very little respect for cheaters so I would have to say she deserves better than you. The level of trust between the two of you will never be the same. If you really want to keep her you will have to do everything she says and asks you to do in order to try and build up her trust in you again. It really is in her hands now. It will take time but at no time can you get angry with her about keeping tabs on you at all times. Good luck to you if you want to try and rebuild her trust. On another note, if anal sex was so important are you sure you aren't bi-sexual?
2006-11-19 14:58:11 · answer #2 · answered by questioningly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you still like her and u realize you made a mistake then try to get her back. She is obviously pissed. I would be pissed if a guy cheated on me like that. If she is that important to you and you decide that you don't want to cheat on her anymore I recommend you do some major *** kissing. Buy her flowers, call her, appologize. It is not her fault because she didn't want to experiment. Even if she accuses you of wrongdoing and gets upset just agree with her. Say you were wrong. If you say you just wnated to experiement and try something different and try to defend yourself she will find that offensive. Let her be right. Sound appologetic like you mean it. Don't make too many mistakes in a relationship. They talley up. She should find it in her heart to forgive you once. Several times I don't know... But if you really like her and you will do anything to keep her then do anything to keep her. She can try to reject you forever but if you guys had something special than you can still ignite the feelings. Good Luck. and stop cheating.. its not good.
2006-11-19 14:57:30 · answer #3 · answered by LIZ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to let her go. If you really loved her and respected her you wouldnt have done what you did. You are lying and deceiving her. If she wasnt meeting your needs than out of love and respect you should had said to her; listen I want to do this is important for me, If she told you know than you should had respected her answer out of the love for her. How would you feel if a girl asked you cant i stick my vibrator up your butt. Would you be okay if she would had done the same thing to you. I can only hope that if she catches you that she droppes your behind because you are a selfish person. You through everything away to stick it into someone else is behind for what. I sure hope she was worth it but you know in yourself that she wasnt and now you are worried about losing your girl. You my friend need to grow up.
2006-11-19 15:07:54 · answer #4 · answered by onelia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HMMM...well I wont bash you because some already did. Well coming from the other side....(not the cheating but the cheated on) You should be honest even to your own hurt. You can never really explain yourself, no matter what you'll be wrong. and you should end the relationship. Tell her this, I'm sorry, I cant change it, you don't need this hurt, kiss her on the forehead and walk away. If she wants to try to make things work she'll come back to you.
GOOD LUCK
BELL
P.S. Don't cheat again your only hurting yourself
2006-11-19 15:04:22 · answer #5 · answered by Bell 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should of gave her time! If you really cared about your girlfriend your actions would of been different! Did you tell her how much it would mean to you if you experimented? If she wasn't willing to that sometime down the road. Then maybe you guys are not right for each other sexually and sex is very important in a relationship.
2006-11-19 15:03:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time to make a big decision. If experimenting is so important to you which obviously it is you need t be with someone else. You will not be happy with a passive sex life and she will not willingly be what she is not. So to stay with her will only eventually lead to a painful break-up because sex is a powerful vice. Don't lie about the situation it won't help. ( and that would be to yourself that you will leave things alone) Be true to yourself and honest to you both.
2006-11-19 15:00:00 · answer #7 · answered by Sage 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's too good for you. End it and let her find someone better than you. You have NO right cheating on her just because she isn't comfortable with anal sex. You're lucky you got her to sleep with you AT ALL in the first place, jerk.
Oh, and please, stick a cucumber up your ***. Then you'll understand why she doesn't want to do it.
2006-11-19 14:55:06 · answer #8 · answered by Esma 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you love her then just tell her what you just said, but if your caught and you don't care for the girl you had anal with and you were only using her for that then you might end up losing the one you love for just a tighter part of the body. Was it worth it???
2006-11-19 14:57:46 · answer #9 · answered by missy j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You screwed up man. You cheated on her just because she wasnt into anal. You try shoving something up your *** and then you will come close to knowing what she would be going through. ou have to try your hardest to get her back. Take her to extremely expensive resaurants and buy her really nice things. Your gonna need everything you can to fix this.
2006-11-19 15:00:21 · answer #10 · answered by nayr8230 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋