i just don't care about dating anymore...or guys iuse too but not i just care about getting a career and stuff. should i become nun? whats wrong with me?
2006-11-19 14:51:03 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
shouldn't i have a desire for the opposite sex and no im not gay.
2006-11-19 14:51:25 · update #1
You're just maturing. There's nothing wrong with putting the dating bits on hold while you get your adult life together..and that may mean getting your career sorted out, finishing college and whatever.
You don't need to become a nun. Once you feel like you're headed down the path you want, you'll probaby want to start dating.
(*shrug*) And you may not. It's not necessary to have a man in your life to have a full and happy life.
2006-11-19 15:04:24 · answer #1 · answered by Kaia 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweet heart, I am in the same place right now. So no you are not weird & not alone. You will one day meet a guy that will make you interested in all of these things again, it is just a case of wait & see. In the mean time, put your effort into your career & into making yourself the best person you can be. Don't lose heart or sleep. Sweet dreams.
2006-11-19 22:56:48 · answer #2 · answered by girls_lie_too_23 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dear,
Calm down...lol....there is NOTHING wrong with you....sounds like you have made a big step in realizing your true responsibilities....your career, doing good for yourself.....keep your head up, perhaps after you have begun and established yourself in a good career, you will meet "Mr. Right".....and as far as being a nun or not wanting to date guys....nothing wrong with that....if you are highly spiritual and WANT to become a nun, then by all means do that....God will lead you the right way, dear.....and if not, then just be good friends with guys...good clean fun.....nothing wrong there either....but by all means, stay safe, clear headed, and you will do just fine, hon....!!
2006-11-19 22:56:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know, I've been the same way for some time now. Haven't met any guys that interest me. I'm trying to get enough saved to leave the area and try another region - maybe I'm just sick of the guys where I live. Different attitudes, different place. Concentrate on yourself and make yourself happy. Investigate new interests/hobbies. Things will work out as they will.
2006-11-19 23:14:03 · answer #4 · answered by anonymous 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes it's good to take a break from it all...kinda simplify things and get a fresh perspective that isn't driven by someone elses wants or needs. If something is wrong with you then I guess there is something wrong with me. Focus on being happy and nothing else matters. Hey you could be in a loveless abusive marriage.....count your blessings...and if you are happy alone ..that is a blessing
2006-11-19 23:02:31 · answer #5 · answered by johnnydean86 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your not weird...did something happen to make you not want to be with guys, if so then talk with someone about it. If you are happy in life then thats all that counts...if career and stuff is making you truly happy and you don't want to date right now its fine...maybe someday you'll change your mind or meet someone who grabs your attention. Just enjoy being content for now...
2006-11-19 22:55:17 · answer #6 · answered by bheithcao 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not weird, maybe just driven by your career. Go on with your career to find satisfaction and maybe when the time is right you'll be interested in guys and dating.
2006-11-19 22:53:02 · answer #7 · answered by Steph L 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It will come back to you. Those feelings will pass. Most older women who stayed single will tell you they felt that way for a while, but it goes away. Be a strong independent women! Don't depend on a man for anything. If you can't do it yourself make sure you can afford to pay to have it done.
Take my advise and you will never be a helpless female.
2006-11-19 22:56:29 · answer #8 · answered by f R 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Good idea and it is not weird- you are focused on a particular goal and that goal takes work- which is fine- go for the career- you have time- and the guys will be there later-D
2006-11-19 22:56:15 · answer #9 · answered by Debby B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's normal. I went through that stage. where all I wanted to do was work and not have to worry about some guy. I don't think guys are worth half the time I spent thinking about them. So, no I don't think anythings wrong with you. I don't think you're looking for love right now.
2006-11-19 22:54:07 · answer #10 · answered by elush613 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋