Ive asked this question before but never got the right anser...Ive always been kinda popular and I liked this girl for a long time we became friends and started hangin out, then we became best friends(i still liked her) We were one of the most popular kids in our jr. high. Everybode always thought we were goin out cuz we were like the exact same. It kind of annoyed her. When I told her I liked her at first she said it was cool ,she use to like me too but not anymore. I thought it was all good but she started acting weird around me. me and her got in a fight and havnt acualy talked since she made new friends but I miss her more than anythin else in the world. She wont even talk to me so I can make up and now her boyfriends after me tryin to jump me. I respect her choice but I wish there was somthin I could do to change her mind. I dont want to act all sad cuz shell think im a loser but I dont want to be rude at the same time, Is there a way to win her back or a way for me to forget her?
2006-11-19 14:37:31 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Alot of people think im scarying her but im not we were friends for 5 years I dont think "I kinda like you" scared her to bad.And she told me she liked me in 6th grade I was just kind of scared to tell her becouse I didn't think I was ready for that kind of relationship, I thought if i did somthing stupid it would mess everything up. I cry all the time. People just say "Move on" but its not like that. She was my best friend we went to eachothers houses, we bowled together. She was like my sister. And feel like im all alone, I got a girl friend and plenty of other friends just as "hot" as her but I still don't feel the same. When ever I thought about what high school or college would be like she was still my best friend and I don't know how to tell myself thats all over. People think its stupid and gay I say all this stuff but I don't care. I just wanted to ask someone online who I don't even know just to spare me feeling like an idiot.
2006-11-19 15:01:25 · update #1
Just keep it real with her and let her know that ya'll started off being friends and you would like to remain that way. Let her know that you aint trying to be her man cause apparently she doesnt want to be your girl. If she doesnt want to be your friend then just forget about her cause she seems like she is kinda drama filled anyways.
2006-11-19 14:42:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to tell you this but my opinion is she didn't like you... she probably said she liked you too just to not hurt you... and when people do that and the guy/girl still insists they get any excuse to fight and push away that person. I think your evidence that she didn't like you are: a) It annoyed her that ppl thought you 2 were together. b) She started getting weird around you. c) She doesnt want to talk to you.
I'd say you move on... if she treated you that way she didnt even care for u as a friend and just think you deserve better than that.
2006-11-19 14:45:56 · answer #2 · answered by Aija 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nick. Sounds like your relationship with her was fast and furious. And that is always scary to say the least. Know that she cares for you too. But also know that you made her see something in herself that she was not ready to face. Is why the avulsion to you. Take heart babe. Be on standby. Good luck.
2006-11-19 14:44:03 · answer #3 · answered by bountyhunter101 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about her and find yourself a new girl and as to the boyfriend just try not to go anywhere alone get yourself some big friends who can help you kick his butt.
2006-11-19 15:00:42 · answer #4 · answered by Casandra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first i just want to tell u that if ur friends or bestfriend really like u she wouldnt act like that. u know if the feeling is mutual then y do she have to make a reservation ryt? honestly i dont like wat she did to u.. that thing that she didnt talked to u after u told her u liked her. u claimed that shes ur best friend but y didnt she tell u wat she really feels?friends dont like that. if she really is ur bestfriend she will be honest with regarding her feelings for u even if it will hurt u.. and y does his bf trying to jump on u?because u like his girl? who told his bf?u or she?if she, y did she tell his bf if she knew that his bf will be mad at u?she knows that it will make a trouble?is that ur bestfriend?is that a best friend should be?just an advice find someone that who will love u..try to forget her even i know its not that easy.. remember this> "U DESERVE SOMEONE BETTER..SOMEONE WHO WILL LOVE U AS U ARE" i just hope this will help.
2006-11-19 14:55:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound like a nut job with this "popular" and "exact same" about this girl. you have too much time on your hands. you probably scared the sh=t out of this girl. you fantasize too much. move on. leave her alone.
get a job, take more classes.
2006-11-19 14:44:58 · answer #6 · answered by ill take it straight with no ice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hangout with other girls so that you will be able to forget her. as they say "if you have been hurt because of love, find another love to heal your broken heart
2006-11-19 14:43:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget it, you cant make someone like you, you just cant.
2006-11-19 14:41:08 · answer #8 · answered by kiss the cook 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋