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so there is this boy i like...A LOT! & it's kinda complicated with us you see right now we are both in the 8th grade and back in 6th grade is when i first started to like him we were rlly good friends & on the last day of skool he brought his camera & chased me around for a pic & my friends always said that he liked me because of the way he acted when he was areound me so we e-mailed all summer & in 7th gd some grl found out that i liked him and told him everything..he stopped talking to me until skool let out then he started txting and im ing me agian and we would talk 4 up to 3 hrs @ a time when this yr came around i figured it was going to be the same as it was be4 all this happend but boy was i wrong he won't talk to me i mean occasionally i get a hi or something like that yet we still talk all the time on the comp im friends with all of his friends and he is with mine so whenever we all get together it is rlly akward between us. i catch looking @ me & when i look he turns fast

2006-11-19 14:14:47 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

neither of us can date "go out"

2006-11-19 14:46:21 · update #1

9 answers

He likes you. Plain and simple. However, he doesn't quite know what to do about it now. From what it sounds like he is a good guy, and most good guys don't have a clue how to approach women. We aren't taught, there is no class, and it's friggan hard!! ESPECIALLY if you both know each other so well.

So the question is, do you like him? Are you interested in him? If you are then just tell him. Do it in a playful way, but in a way that lets him know you actually do like him. As a guy he is probably thinking, does she like me? How do I know? What the hell does it mean when she does that and this and that?

If he likes you, he is agonizing right now trying to figure out what to do. If he does not like you as a potential girlfriend, then what do you have to lose by letting him know how you feel? If he isn't interested, but wants to be friends, then just be friends!

So much effort is wasted on games. The feeling I get is you both like each other. Just go for it. Don't wait for him to make a move, because considering you are both about 13... it'll take him a few years. And just remember, true dating is just having fun with each other. So in effect you have been dating this guy already!

Good luck

2006-11-19 14:23:10 · answer #1 · answered by Jericho 2 · 0 0

It sounds to me that he's really shy. Perhaps now that he knows you like him too, he isn't sure how to approach it further. Or, maybe he really doesn't like you. The only way you'll find out is by pulling him aside and having a serious talk. Ask him if there is a problem between you two and then proceed from there. It's always good to tackle it head on rather than guess.

2006-11-19 14:18:21 · answer #2 · answered by Aestial 1 · 0 0

if a guy spends any time talking to you that he could spend doing something else, he likes you. The fact that he spends hours talking to you is a huge sign. If he didnt like you he wouldnt bother. Plus, he's uncomfortable around you. If you were just one of his buds he would be at ease but he's not. Sad thing is, he's way too self-conscious or something to chat with you in person so hes acting like a scared little kid and only talking on the computer. You should ask him on the computer why he doesnt talk to you in person.

2006-11-19 14:18:08 · answer #3 · answered by Stephanie 2 · 1 0

Take it from me....You are still young and it all sounds fun. Enjoy it while it lasts. The butterflies in your stomach, the excitement, the games. Look forward to more.

It sounds like he is interested, but something is holding him back...Friends, shy, or just doesn't know what to do. Consentrate on yourself and do your own thing and everything will just fall into place. Always remember...If it is meant to happen.....it will.....Person, place or thing.

Enjoy your youth, it just gets more complicated as you age.

2006-11-19 14:23:15 · answer #4 · answered by JILL (Chicago) 1 · 0 0

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2016-11-29 07:16:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Well it depends if he was around u a lot and flirted a lot then i think so. if that dosen't help then im sorry. oh and if u want 2 3d chat go 2 imvu.com and my account name is xloveisadreamx add me if go 2 imvu.com its really cool trust me ^_^

2006-11-19 14:21:03 · answer #6 · answered by ~*SexiLexii*~ 1 · 0 0

hes one of those shy guys who will only feel comfortable talking to you on the net or text. He's just shy and I think he likes you. just ask him why he doesnt talk to you much in person.

2006-11-19 14:19:27 · answer #7 · answered by Mel 4 · 0 0

If he does not like you he would told you so. I for one do not think you are a fool. The best thing is to talk.

2006-11-19 14:26:39 · answer #8 · answered by Mattman 6 · 0 0

Gurl he like u bc if he did he would neva do the things he did u not a fool HE LIKE U !!!!!!!!!

2006-11-19 14:26:29 · answer #9 · answered by Darla B 1 · 0 0

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