sometimes he will talk about other girls like last night we went to a dance and today he got to talking about it and he was like there was one girl out there who was really shakin'her a*ss and he was just describing her and talking bout all these other "hot" girls and crap and it was makin me really mad but i didnt want to be mean... i was like theres something i could say right now but im not gonna say it...he begged me to tell him but i wouldnt i was gonna say theres a lot of hot guys out there and i dont talk about them do i?
i mean he told my sousin to her face taht she was hot and i was standin right there!!!
what do i say to let him know that that bothers me???
2006-11-19 14:04:47 · 9 answers · asked by 6-17-06 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i love him a lot and im not breaking up with him!!!
2006-11-19 14:08:17 · update #1
Tell him 'WTF are you talking bout?'
2006-11-19 14:12:32 · answer #1 · answered by Bear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it is hard when they tell you something like that, but you just have to sit them down and say, you dont see me talking about all the hot guys that i see so just dont talk about the hot girls that you see because it makes me jealous and that you want them more than me. Believe me that gets him everytime!
2006-11-19 14:15:37 · answer #2 · answered by whitchelle229 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey........go ahead........just flush him down the toilet!
This guy is just not worth it...........he shows you no love (by yapping about other girls)............ no respect (by describing lurid details).........no compassion (by even lapping your cousin in front of you!)...........he has no human values (sounds like an animal from your description of him!).............n he's beyond salvation (be coz you.......a stupid dreamer still loves him n wouldn't give him the boot!)
You deserve someone much better...........sack that losse dick.........n get a clean ....decent.... human being!
2006-11-19 14:16:56 · answer #3 · answered by sandy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forging me for saying this but i think ur bf is a womanizer or a guy who has so much lust in his body?arent u feel insulted because of that? we both have sentiments regarding my ex and ur bf but not as worst as yours. mine is he kept on talking regarding his crush in school so i let him go.. i think he really like the girl.. its just that wenever he kept on talking with his crush i felt insulted. my question to him is "arent u contented with me because if u are u wudnt dare try to look at other girls?". y dont u ask ur bf that?
2006-11-19 14:12:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should think better of yourself than to stay with someone who doesnt see YOU as the most beautiful girl in his life. There are real guys like that out there. You shouldn't have to talk to him about it... you deserve to be with someone who sees you as everything.
2006-11-19 14:10:50 · answer #5 · answered by hll 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol I know how this goes. My fiance is always comparing me to someone else. It seems to me that they only do it because we let them. If you put your foot down (I did) and confront him about what he is doing and how it affects you. Then if he loves you or even just cares about you he will stop. If he doesn't then it sounds like you don't need to be with him.
2006-11-19 14:07:16 · answer #6 · answered by Kevin's Gurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe if you act like you think theyre hot too and comment also in the same manner...perhaps he'll worry and cut it out. hehe ;) Peace lol
2006-11-19 14:12:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What really freaks me out is that you continue to call this guy bf. Show yourself some self-respect and lose him....
2006-11-19 14:08:29 · answer #8 · answered by snvffy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him the truth and if he doesn't fix it give him the boot. Obviously he has no respect for your feelings.
2006-11-19 14:08:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋