I'm goin on a d8 tomorrow! I get nervous just gettin the bus! how am i goin to manage the d8!? I feel sick, do other people get this nervous!?
2006-11-19 14:03:04 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Darlin, we all get nervous. It is part of being unsure and human all at once. Part of my job on a date is to help the other relax, and to keep myself relaxed.
Unless in Scottland, only two humans go on dates, and well, two nervous humans who can relax have the ability to start really getting to know one another and be themselves.
Chuckie
2006-11-19 19:21:39 · answer #1 · answered by Charles-CeeJay_UK_ USA/CheekyLad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to calm down. You don't need to get nervous for everything because it is of no good. Is this your first d8? If so, never mind if you mess up becuase I think everybody messed up things on their first d8. And the thing is that in life we learn from our mistakes and it is never too late to learn from them trust me.
Btw I wish you the best of luck for your d8 and hope that a relationship will be built.
2006-11-20 02:35:09 · answer #2 · answered by Falcon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure we do! So what i come up with was: just go on dates with guys that you've been out socially with friends! first times can never go well because of the nervousness. Plan the first dates on a social atmosphere and get a proper date only on the 3rd or 4th encounter. For me this way has made me less nervous and enjoy more the proper date.
2006-11-19 23:43:26 · answer #3 · answered by Mary7 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it's normal. Especially if you have not started dating long. Don't worry after some practice you want get so nervous.
Good luck on your date.
2006-11-20 03:50:24 · answer #4 · answered by Reaper 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what they say.. Everything will be alright on the night, so don't worry.. its natural to be a little nervous..
Good luck..
2006-11-20 04:48:35 · answer #5 · answered by robert x 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make sure she picks up the tab before nailing her. in the hotel room make sure you memorize the room, that way it's easier to find the door without turning the light on to make good your escape.
2006-11-20 05:08:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a couple of brandies to settle the nerves perhaps. anyways, im sure nerves wont make or break your date. Most people look beyond that.
2006-11-19 22:05:53 · answer #7 · answered by ugly little hate machine 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's normal don't panic. Just have a drink before hand but don't get sloshed.
2006-11-20 06:09:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Crack an icebreaker at your own expense:
You "I hate this bit."
Date "What bit?"
You "The bit where I make cheap icebreaker joke so I can stop feeling like a rabbit in headlights. Its truly excrutiating."
2006-11-20 12:37:23 · answer #9 · answered by Danny B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, but it just part of the learning process, don't be afraid to mess up.
2006-11-19 22:05:45 · answer #10 · answered by Al 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋