sometimes he will talk about other girls like last night we went to a dance and today he got to talking about it and he was like there was one girl out there who was really shakin'her a*ss and he was just describing her and talking bout all these other "hot" girls and crap and it was makin me really mad but i didnt want to be mean... i was like theres something i could say right now but im not gonna say it...he begged me to tell him but i wouldnt i was gonna say theres a lot of hot guys out there and i dont talk about them do i?
i mean he told my sousin to her face taht she was hot and i was standin right there!!!
what do i say to let him know that that bothers me???
2006-11-19 13:53:06 · 9 answers · asked by 6-17-06 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
also i love him a lot and im not breaking up with him...
2006-11-19 14:00:18 · update #1
you need to tell him how you feel. if he still does it and sees no problem with it, then break up with him. he's obviously not into you if he can't stop talking about other girls...especially right in front of you! and above all- don't pretend like it's ok with you when he does that!!! maybe that's why he still does it- you're not letting him know that it bothers you...
2006-11-19 13:57:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is totally disrespectful. You need to let him know how it makes u feel, and that if he wants to talk like that to do it with his friends, but when he is with u, u should be where his attention is and not on other girls. If he has a prob with that, then u have to deal with it or move on. Guys only change what they want to change, but when they know its hurting us and still don't change, how will they be in the future of the relationship. Thats something u have to consider. Good luck
2006-11-19 14:29:47 · answer #2 · answered by Amber 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try not to take it personally...It's ok to give compliments...Here's my best explanation...
To guys, women are like cars…
Guys will get the one that they REALLY want. We admire others as they pass by. We'll even look up different models on the web or magazines. We imagine what it would be like driving others. We even sometimes miss the good times and bad of previous ones. We can even pay money to test drive others (eww). BUT…We will NEVER give up or replace the one that we have and love.
2006-11-19 13:57:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I certainly have been in that sittuation only yesturday and my boyfriend calling me a ***** and that i dumped him precise after tha no longer he's ever so unhappy .. and that i dont extremely care.. or in case you like him too plenty and dont choose for to offload him.. thenjust communicate over with him bout it or ignore approximately him or... no longer be around him while hes being a jerk .
2016-11-25 20:33:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow it seems like hes realy trying to piss you off and make you jealous. y else would he do that? im sure hes not that stupid. ur bf is probably very insecure like mine and when he talks about other girls to you it makes him feel better about himself. its not you....its him. tell him how it makes you feel and if he loves you, at some point in your relationship he will tell you why he does it. talk to him. good luck girlie!
2006-11-19 13:59:10 · answer #5 · answered by =] 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has that little respect for you leave him, it will never get better, trust me!
2006-11-19 13:56:39 · answer #6 · answered by candym 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be blunt, the way he sounds it wont hurt his feeling, if he has any.
2006-11-19 13:58:35 · answer #7 · answered by Randy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just say it as it is
2006-11-19 14:00:06 · answer #8 · answered by last3member2002 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that he is disrespectful and unappreciative and then dump his ***!!!
2006-11-19 13:58:24 · answer #9 · answered by kawasakigurl1400 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋