Ok I have been going out with this guy for a while. He says he really like me but im not sure. Ive never dated anyone like him before. Ive always like smart guys and we had at least a couple things in common. The guy im dating now is not academically smart, and he doesn't have that much common sense either. I like him but i don't love him and he says he loves me and im wondering if im holding back because im being snotty or something. Like i know that no one is "better" than anyone else, but ive always pictured myself with somone a little more.. well.. sophisticated i guess. I mean we have kissed and stuff and it seems like he really likes me and i think he thinks i don't like him. Ive had to reassure him a couple times. Do you think i should break up with him? I don't want to, i want it to last but im not sure if it has the potential.
2006-11-19 13:49:14 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
give him a chance. he might just be nervous around you because you are smart. Sometimes people say stupid things when they are around someone who intimidates them. go with the flow, if you start to feel uninterested then ask him if you guys can become just friends
2006-11-19 13:55:23 · answer #1 · answered by Mel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't break up with him if you still have feelings for him... What does academically smart mean in the long run, besides job payout? And upholding sophisticated conversations? And talking with friends?
Zach Strass
2006-11-19 13:51:24 · answer #2 · answered by Zach S 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
break up now before it`s too late
everysecond u`ll spend with him u will suffer after ur n`t with him anymore
remember the diferrences like this will always last with u inside
u`d never get over it
guys r all over the world u can abetter chance ..
2006-11-19 14:17:48 · answer #3 · answered by PINK 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The real questions you need to be asking yourself, Do you love him for him? Can you imagine your life without him? Can you be happy without him? If you like him but not love him you should just be friends. Don't lead him on... Its not nice to play with someones heart...
2006-11-19 13:58:13 · answer #4 · answered by shphrdgrl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, maybe you are with him to help him learn. Maybe it's so that you can help him get through life easier. Don't break up with him unless you don't like him! If he cares about you, believe him and accept him. It'll be allright in the end.
~Caty~
2006-11-19 13:55:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think u should show him in some way how u feel about him so he is positive u like him and i definatly dont think u should break up with him.....wait a little longer and see wat happens and if it dosent have potential then break up with him but if it dose stay goin out with him.
2006-11-19 13:54:23 · answer #6 · answered by ~*Pretty Eyes*~<3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i never bothered to read all of your question just enough to see that you have a very low opinion of this poor guy so why don't you leave him alone and find some one that you have respect for.
2006-11-19 13:53:15 · answer #7 · answered by roy40372 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Kinda suprising where one finds love...usually where they never expect to ( or so I am told ). Open up and enjoy the ride
2006-11-19 13:52:20 · answer #8 · answered by Lewis 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Something about him attracted you and your high standard had not kicked in then.
Opposites attract and it's obvious you like him, so go for it!
2006-11-19 14:04:27 · answer #9 · answered by bashfulstranger 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's up to you. If you want to make it last, it will.
2006-11-19 13:51:58 · answer #10 · answered by melomane 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋