I think that I'm a pretty terrific girl, with lots to offer in a relationship. But, it seems like every time I become interested in someone, they either cheat, or have a girlfriend/wife already. I'm really busy, so I find that dating online works for me (or doesn't work) and I also date primarily black men (I'm white). Does the medium I use have anything to do with it? Do most black men cheat (I hate to stereotype, but it's been the standard with me)? I don't know what to do besides remain single the rest of my life because I am really tired of being hurt. Some women like to share their man, I'm not that woman. Any suggestions??
2006-11-19 13:39:55 · 8 answers · asked by Cat 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
keep your head up. time will give your special someone.
(maybe the type and not the race of guy you like is the problem. the exciting bad boy are just that, bad)
2006-11-19 13:47:16 · answer #1 · answered by snowteller 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay 1st of all, all black men don't cheat and 2nd women cheat 2 I hate when women think it's just men cheating, oh and maybe it's just not time for you to be with anyone yet when it's the right time you'll find the right man for and stop what you doing maybe thats whats wrong with you g. you 2 busy most men like to have alone time with they woman too.
2006-11-19 13:47:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dishonest extremely has extra to do with the Cheater fairly than the Cheat-ee - some egos have a hollow that they attempt to fill- and subconsciously or consciously they experience entitled to extra interest, affection, confirmation... It has not something to do with love- that is extremely extra about self-loathing, and perceived desires as against actual desires. even as adult adult males or women people cheat- they recognize that is incorrect, and that is incorrect because hurting somebody else is by no potential solid for your self. some people stay in a deeper state of denial than others. they could rationalize dishonest by telling themselves that they deserve tru love or happiness- yet both one among those commence from interior of. Love is a decision- so is happiness, and also you'll distract your self with new people or reviews, yet finally you capture as a lot as your self and then you should commence all yet again or fix the issue.
2016-11-29 07:15:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men cheat for all the same reasons women do. Really, it is NOT a gender thing...it is in the personality. They cheat because they can
2006-11-19 13:49:11 · answer #4 · answered by Lewis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men black or white cheat because they dont respect themselves and they dont respect women at all , but when they cheat over and over eventually they want to try and settle down and it comes right back on them, they too get cheated on and live lonely lives, cheaters have no clue what love or marriage is about, how sad for them god dont like ugly everything done negative always comes back.
2006-11-19 13:48:38 · answer #5 · answered by amy j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most guys cheat. lol. there are very few of us decent people left. it's because as a species, many guys are reverting to primal urges and needs. life is no longer about love and family, mainly it's about sex and greed now. sorry. maybe you should try dating someone who you're attracted to, but not super attracted to, since the bad ones are attracting you.
2006-11-19 13:47:49 · answer #6 · answered by Pyromaniac 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll an Asian, your words seen to be unfair to those "white man" and a little racial sensitive. The problem of you is that your time is not right and very unfortunately you meet all these nonsense. Why not ! try to have an "Asian" boyfriend, very faithful and sincere.
2006-11-19 14:00:16 · answer #7 · answered by James Louis 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be more selective and ask more questions of him first, also read his body language when asking questions in person.
2006-11-19 13:46:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋