This guy wants to meet me tomorrow for a coffee!!!!!
Firstly i don't drink coffee n secondly i'm sooooooooo nervous!!!!!
I'm gettin all panicy! He's so fit! I met him on Fri night! Whats wrong with me!?
Plz help me!
2006-11-19 13:03:09 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just try to chill out a bit-he obviously likes you as he wants to meet you so stop stressing about it.As for the coffee,order tea instead as no doubt wherever you go for coffee they will serve tea too.
2006-11-19 13:07:40 · answer #1 · answered by M M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh come on.. thats just first date jitters and frankly we have all been there. Just calm down and write down things to talk about. Visualize yourself having coffee and enjoying yourself completely. Smile a lot and ask a lot of questions.. show your interest so he doesnt have the time to look at you too hard to make you feel more nervous. He may be fit and all but if he asked you to coffee, it means he is interested. Keep that in mind.
2006-11-19 21:06:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Darling, don't worry about it. If you don't like coffee, don't be afraid to tell him that, or you can always just drink some apple juice or something. Don't be nervous that he is so fit too. You guys have met before, so he obviously likes you! And nothing is wrong with you, just relax, don't worry about it! "What's meant to be always finds a way."
2006-11-19 21:06:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You like him, therefore you're bound to be nervous. Take a deep breath, dress your best to make yourself feel good, and have fun! You can order a chia tea or other non-coffee drinks at coffee places.
2006-11-19 21:05:10 · answer #4 · answered by pixy_stix 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the worst thing that could happen is him not liking what he sees. If he does not see your personality and is all into looks then he is shallow and does not deserve your attention. Just be yourself. Order tea instead of coffee and just be honest...If your nervous, tell him and maybe he will find that cute...
2006-11-19 21:07:23 · answer #5 · answered by wittlewabbit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry, you dont have to get coffee...even if you are in a coffeshop etc
and lots of ppl get nervous when they met someone socially.
Its just different, but i suggest that you relax, and stay engaged throughout the conversation. If your not interested then your not, if you are then you are.
2006-11-19 21:07:12 · answer #6 · answered by Kim T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ur prob nervous cause ur worried what he'll think of u, uve already met him so u shudnt b that nervous, just b urself it obviously worked on friday
2006-11-19 21:05:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all take a chill pill . .and if he didn't want to meet you then he wouldn't have . .just relax and think about things you can talk about. Good luck tomorrow!!
2006-11-19 21:05:40 · answer #8 · answered by amber 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
calm down, try to remember he is human just like you..and if you dont like coffee then just drink some tea..
2006-11-19 21:05:01 · answer #9 · answered by sinful vampyra 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he wants to meet you, then there is nothing to worry about, i wish i had a girl that was nervous meeting me, damn i would be soo happy.
anyway, there is nothing to worry about, plus you are the girl, he is probably more nervous then you are.
2006-11-19 21:05:33 · answer #10 · answered by kimzzooo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋