please help! I have no idea of what to do?

Question

If you knew me or saw me you would think I have the perfect life... the truth is I don't. I´m really messed up my parents pressure me like hell, not only with school but with sports and even after all that my mom expects me to go out and have a boyfriend (which I don't because all boys dump me because I have no time to see them) I'm really kinda depressed what should I do?

Answer 1

I'm sorry to tell you, but sometimes things get better and then
rippppppppp here comes some more crap for you to step in

Answer 2

I'm really sorry about how you are feeling. It's hard enough fitting in, trying to do everything you're suppose to, dealing with all the things you deal with being a teenager, and then your parents want you to do it all on top of that...
Your parents can't MAKE YOU do ANYTHING you don't want to do. OK? If you don't want to be in sports, you don't have to!! That is YOUR decision, OK? If you're not ready for a boyfriend, then you don't HAVE TO have one. Although I suspect if you weren't made to do everything else, you'd want one. Right? I would be depressed too, if I were in your situation.
I can understand them wanting you to do your best in school, getting good grades. I'm sure you can see why as well. But ANYTHING besides the added peer pressure of school studies is a form of abuse. (To an extent anyway.) You need to talk to your parents and let them know how you feel. If they won't listen, talk to your school counselor. That is what they are there for. OK?
You can't be expected to do it all and you shouldn't. You just do the best you can. And don't be pressured into doing things you don't want to do. And don't worry about what people might think about your life just by looking at you. You know who are you, and that's all that matters!!!! Good luck!!!

Answer 3

Tell your mom that you need a life.. without their interference. You can only do so much... It's really hard if you are a teenager because there are so many things like peer pressure.. You don't need any added stress. If you're not ready to go out with guys then tell your mom that you will date when YOU are ready. You need to stand up for yourself. Not only will it help with communicating with your family but it will help you in the future with other things. Good luck!

Answer 4

talk to your parents. and if they don't listen, then talk louder. if they still don't listen refuse to do those sports. and then they'll wonder what's wrong and more than likely, they will listen to you.

my sister had that same problem. my dad pushed her into doing a lot of sports and she was playing three different sports at once in middle school. finally my sister broke down and to make a long story short, she told him to pretty much back off a little. so, my dad softened up. my sister was also depressed and my dad took her to a counselor (psychiatrist) and he was told to buy a puppy for her, b/c it would help her heal. well, guess what? it worked. she has a puppy now and she's doing what she wants now. but, she's still responsible. she's 17 now.

anyways, that's all that i know.

Answer 5

I don't know how old you are and perhaps that's not too important right now, but you may want to mention to your parents that you are depressed of whats being expected of you.

You may want to talk to someone who gives professional therapy also.

Answer 6

well maybe thye just want ur life 2 be perfect and they over did itand dont know it,be open with them i mean im sure besides the pressure
there honist andhard working people who pay there taxes.

Answer 7

Your life sounds great! Keep living it and listen to your parents. They love you and have life experience.

Answer 8

Things will get better----you are in a rut but I feel good things will come your way soon------GOOD LUCK!