why can't people find true love?

Answer 1

a lot of ways to answer this question because people have different definitions for what "true love" is. For me, true love is a feeling you share with another person where you both love each other unconditionally. You both have your faults and silly little things about each other but you learn to love/accept/tolerate those things about one another. When you come to a problem, you both face the problem and try to talk/work it out with open minds. in the relationship, you both respect each other enough and in making decisions or judgements, you both take into consideration its effects and your partner's feelings along with your own. it's knowing a person's strengths and weaknesses and loving them nonetheless. true love is that feeling where you cant wait to wake up the next morning to spend another day with the one you love, true love is caring for that person and the one's they care about, its a feeling of completeness, contentment when it feels like everything in the world is possible. it's beyond physical attraction. it's also tears, rough patches, and sad times..but holding each other up through it and growing the better of it..true love is a lot of things, much of it hard to describe in words. Some reasons why people cant find true love is that, for one, maybe theyre not letting themselves be open to it. Theyre too guarded, probably as a result from past relationships, for which you cant blame them, or maybe insecurities, ones that they cant overcome to allow them to be more "free", live the next part of their life with a fresh slate. Another reason may be is that people are not honest with their partner, preventing true love from blossoming because its not growing from a solid foundation. It may also be that nowadays, with divorce, cheating, n other factors, people find it hard to believe that true love even exists or still even possible. Hard to narrow down to a definite answer why people can't find true love, but one thing's for sure, we know that those who have or will, are definitely blessed and lucky to find what some ppl spend their entire lives searching for. Good luck with finding the answer youre looking for to this question, and if/when you do, let me know, i'd like to hear it :)

Answer 2

True Love is not something you buy or find in the street corner...

Its a constant give and take when you are in a relationship.

When you meet a person, you are attracted to them, because of their physical appeal to you, you get to know the person, and with time
the physical attraction turns more into liking their ways, perhaps how they treat you, things they do, or how they do things.

And of course we say we are in love.

However, Love is a feeling that sometimes is misundertood.

Love is accepting, and respecting a person with their qualities as well as there faults.

We watch too many movies and sometimes wait around hoping to find "The right person", the person to what we consider our ideal partner,

Someone who is just like us.

But keep in mind....we have all been raised different, come from different parents, live different childhoods, and think we are all correct in our ways.

So there is no possible way to find someone exactly like us...unless we married our sibblings, and even then, all children are different.

That makes us special and a relationship so exciting, learning from one another, respecting each others ideas, and ways, and look at the good that we each have.

Love is a feeling that we like to feel, but there is times when we dont let ourselves really fall in-love, not commit completely and find resons why we should or dont.

I feel my husband is my true love....eventhough we are different in many ways, we both have alot of thing in common, and enjoy each others company.

We feel protected by each other, we are best freinds, and lovers

But dont get me wrong...we disagree in many things, we get upset at each other, but over all we respect, each other,communicate and give each other the space we each need.

We have been married for 14 years, and
I cant even imagine my life without my husband...My True Love

Answer 3

Their very few true loves anymore, times have changed. Women have to get out and work to pay the bills, their children are just about raised by the babysitter. it isn't like it was 50 years ago, man made the living, women cooked and kept the house Their was one car for all the family Now, women make just about if not more money than their spouses, they don't have to depend on you for their livelihood.

Answer 4

peolpe can't find true love because they have some people out there who don't know how to treat others. they always cheat, lie and hurt others. some people just don't know what love is

Answer 5

i don't beleive that people can't find true love it's out there don't give up, and don't worry when u least expect it love ( true love) will fall right into your arms.

Answer 6

some people think its hard,some people are scared and some people think its stupid to look for true love they think love will find them.

Answer 7

Because it is such a complicated thing...people often get confused with other things, like physical needs, and so forth....Ultimately, i think it is because people don't look hard enough...but then again, sometimes, we just have to be patient and wait :P

Answer 8

Because no one is perfect and we expect so much from each other....knowing our backgrounds,beliefs and other differences that may cause so much misunderstandings can help us understand and solve disagreements.

Answer 9

They're either looking to hard or settling for less.

Answer 10

not all people.Some people,yes,they can not find a true love.