Okay well i like this guy hes a junior im a freshman and well i told him i liked him and he turned me down and chose this other girl instead of me he said i was to immature for him so with that i told him to leave me a lone for a while because i want to get over him. Yeah we dont talk its not very hard to resist him but i dont know where to go from here im ignoring my feelings for him is that good or is that bad should i just accept the fact that he chose my friend over me and said i was immature should i come to reality that i got my heart broken or should i just ignore it all? I dont know what to do?
2006-11-19 12:44:50 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Right now im trying to keep distracted so i wont think of him and i dont know whats going to happen next do you think it was the right thing in asking for myspace? and he says he likes me too but he wants to be with her and i feel stupid because im not hes doormat he cant expect for everyhting to be the same!
2006-11-19 12:48:07 · update #1
Thank you everyone i know what i have to do now and this is another lesson im learning from life there are other fish in the water
2006-11-19 12:58:04 · update #2
just walk away and go on to better things
2006-11-19 15:44:09 · answer #1 · answered by just a mommy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you seriously just described what i went through recently....i fell hard for a junior and i am a freshman...told him how i felt and got turned down....i know it is hard to deal with the fact that you have a broken heart, but the sooner you realize it and deal with it, the sooner you can move on and quit being hung up over a guy who doesnt like you in the same way...realizing that you like him and he doesnt like you is the first step to getting over a broken heart....you need to just accept it, take time to grieve, and eventually move on. it is bad to ignore your feelings. realize that you like him a lot, and then start the process of getting over him. this is just one guys oppinion about you, and i know its hard to see it now, but there are guys out there who will exchange your feelings. just face the facts, and get on with your life...you wil be much happier when you do! i know this is hard... good luck!!
2006-11-19 20:52:10 · answer #2 · answered by Ellen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the ideal thing wud be to get involved with somebody else. The attention you get from him would help you get over this guy, and also restore your self esteem. Dont worry, its a matter of time and just to make you laugh, read what i read somewhere "Time will heal a broken heart, and his broken arms and legs".. hehehe
2006-11-19 20:55:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
at least you don't have to wonder anymore if he likes you or not. you got your answer. It will take time to get over him. start a new hobby or go out shopping with some friends. Maybe even look for another guy to like at your school?
2006-11-19 20:50:09 · answer #4 · answered by Suzy Suzee Sue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your HOMEWORK...this is your MOTHER...I told you to get off that stupid chat thing a half hour ago...I'm calling your FATHER right now and telling him to cancel that ISP thingamabob or I'm going to PMS all over this house!
2006-11-19 20:48:57 · answer #5 · answered by bs49ers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's probably the immature one. I'm sorry that he chose your friend over you. You are probably better off without him...
2006-11-19 20:47:49 · answer #6 · answered by knifelvr 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well do not even worry about , u are not the only one. but just walk up to him an slap him because he had went out with your friend instead of u. and i know u are and prettygirl
2006-11-19 20:56:45 · answer #7 · answered by bigahinson 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do exactly what your heart tells you to do. As far as I understand you have no problem forgetting him, so do so!
You can´t do anything about his feelings.
2006-11-19 20:49:46 · answer #8 · answered by ullis 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
walk up to him and say "I want you to come on my face"
then walk away.
that will show him!
2006-11-19 20:47:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋