should i call her, what are you girls thinking and want when your upset?

Question

My girlfriend and I got into an argument about money lastnight. we didnt talk on the way to her house and when i slept over she didnt sleep near me like usual. i know she is mad at me. this morning she didnt even say goodmorming and get over it while sleeping like she said she does. when i left we didnt even hug or say anything. she did say ill call you later but it was more like under her breath. Im sitting here all day doing things to keep me from calling but im going crazy not talking to her. I really want to call her and talk. not about what happened but about general stuff. How was our day, what you up to tonight. i want to give her her space to get over it and have her time for her. What should i do? Should i call her? Should i wait another hour or 2? What is thinking, is she thinking of us, her, me? is the glade that im not around? I need some answers.

Answer 1

call her, and hope she wont pick up so u can leave her a message, .. she'll be waiting for the call....

Answer 2

Well, we're kind of a finicky bunch, but I'm not telling you anything new, I suppose! I would go ahead and give her a call. You can try the general topic idea, but whatever the argument was about is what is probably still on her mind so be prepared to talk about it. It never goes over well when you try to pretend that nothing happened and everythings normal. Accpet responsibility for whatever part of the conflict is yours, but she needs to be mature enough and in the right space to talk about it too. Let her know that you want to talk about it and ask her if she's up to figuring things out. If not, when is a good time? That way you're not left hanging. Good luck!

Answer 3

Maybe you should text message her or something. That way if she still needs time to cool off she can ignore it and call you later, but she will still know you care. Just say something like, 'I miss you and I hope you've had a great day, I would love to talk to you so give me a call whenever you're ready to chat. I love you : )'
I think that's caring without being pushy or needy and leaves it up to her as to when she talks to you. If she doesn't call within the next day or so I would give her a call and see what's up. Good luck : )

Answer 4

The only way you are going to get answers is to talk to her. Call her. Don't talk about what the fight was about that may start another argument. Just tell her you missed her today and ask her how her day went.

Answer 5

Poor guy, definitelly call her, right away, sounds to me like she was angry and hurt, but if she loves you she really would want you to call, talk about all the nice stuff you said, but also be brave and bring up last night, even if she says she does not want to talk about it, chances are she does. Try to see things from her side too. You sound like you really love her, she is a lucky girl, don't torture yourself any longer. CALL !!!!!!!!

Answer 6

Call her. If you don't she will be even more pissed, and thinking you don't care anymore. Or show up at her door with a rose or two and apologize, then talk things through. She will be happy you thought of her. At least I would!

Answer 7

Whenever I tell my man not to call me because of an argument, that really means " you better call me or you'll be sorry" Give her an hour or so then call.

Answer 8

I think you should let her have her space. We women seem to like confrontation, and when you give us the attetion, sometimes it just gets bigger. To avoid that replay of your arguement, just let it be, and when she is ready she will call you. If you decide to call her, I can almost gaurantee she will be ready to continue your arguement all over again! Good Luck!

Answer 9

she might still be mad at you but id say call her..maybe she is just waiting for you to say sorry..and if you guys are fighting over money then i thnk you guys sould sit odwn and talk about it..money isnt something worth fighting over..

Answer 10

Call her