I feel helpless in the boy department. My friends all have dates, and I seem like I can't get anyone! My best friend tells me to stop thinking like this. SHe is trying to set me up with someone but I don't believe it will work because he will look at me and leave! I am not pretty, hot, or cute! what is wrong with me?!
2006-11-19 12:21:43 · 11 answers · asked by lpokknmui 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
You are basing your self-worth on the acceptance of others. Once you learn accept who you are for who you are, the rest will fall into place. Men can sense from a mile away that you are not happy with who you are, and they don't want the baggage/drama. Relax, and it will happen in good time.
2006-11-19 12:27:09 · answer #1 · answered by Haveitlookedat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what? Be yourself.... Don't try to hard. Guys hate it when a girl tries to hard. Don't buzz all over them---be independent. There is this one girl who is not pretty, hot, or cute, but I have a huge crush on her because she is independent, doesn't try to get a guy in a way that's painfully obvious, and she is herself. That works---Don't go with the flow-- be yourself! Yeah!
Oh--and don't go with looks, either. Looks are a nice bonus, but sometimes boys are often jerks who's main goal is to get under the covers, if you get my drift. Let your relationship progress, and don't be a total suckup. Find someone who appreciates you for who you are and not for your looks. That is the kind of relationship that lasts the longest.
2006-11-19 12:29:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to change your attitude, that is what is wrong with you. The first step is self love and it seems from your short msg that it is lacking. If you don't like yourself how do you expect anyone else to? What is sour to one will be sweet to another so don't ever think you are not attractive to the opposite sex. Stop looking for it, trust you will be so much happier when it happens. And don't be in a rush.
2006-11-19 14:20:36 · answer #3 · answered by uthinkso 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I can relate to how you are feeling. I use feel that men didn't like me. I had the same problem that men didn't find me attractive enough. There will be someone out there for you. I am currently in a relationship even though ti is long distance. You need to find someone who shares your common interests. Just don't settle. Be good to yourself first, then things will take care of itself.
2006-11-19 12:59:31 · answer #4 · answered by Contessa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
beauty comes from the inside.most real men would rather spend thier lives with thier best friend no matter what they look like.model types are too high maintenence and you have to worry about them leaving.some guys get lucky and get both,but when a man falls in love looks wont matter.
2006-11-19 12:27:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if having a bf feels like what i'm going through now, you do not want one! your friends don't really care aobut him , and they will make fun of you, you may even worry about if he is looking at other girls.
.also , don't be desperate. you will find that you may not want one when you have it. i don't think of my self as pretty, hot, or cute either, but i don't think anything is wrong with me.
2006-11-19 12:27:21 · answer #6 · answered by ipodlady231 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey ! u have to find a guy u like.....just make urself pretty or something and stop feeling that way about it...just get a guy and work it out....make ur best shot and do something sweet or good for him .....
2006-11-19 12:27:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have no confidence and it sounds like you don't like yourself very much.
Not hard to see why you have a problem in this department.
Learn to like you first.
2006-11-19 12:54:24 · answer #8 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I bet someone wonderful will come along when you least expect it.
2006-11-19 12:44:38 · answer #9 · answered by pepsiolic 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just let it go and stop looking then will come
2006-11-19 12:25:50 · answer #10 · answered by george p 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋