Earlier this morning my mother yelled at me and said some really mean things and my sister was in on it too and i just got home for Thanksgiving break from college she called me a liar and a bunch of some things that hurt my feelings but i didnt say anything back to her for the first time cuz i was in shock that she would say all those things to me.. so i went on facebook like i always do and i updated my status..and my status said that "Dominique is realizing the EXACT reason she wanted to get away from her family in the 1st place..forget a Thanksgiving dinner i'll rather eat alone back at Illinois State." My sister went on her facebook account and my ma wanted to see my page for the first time and thats what she read...and she asked me about it and i said yep i'll rather eat alone than with yall and she was like that hurt my feelings and i was like thats nothing compared to how u made me feel earlier...for some reason she always fail to realize that i have feelings too..am i wrong?
2006-11-19 12:17:28 · 14 answers · asked by Sweetheart88 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Parents sometimes say things that they really don't mean. I use to yell at my mom because i felt like at times she didnt' care for me. Long story short I just lost my mom this year. I'm the only child and both of my parents are deceased. Just love your parents and talk to them. Let them know how you really feel and just be open with them. NO harsh feelings, be humble and respectful, but caring and understanding. I wish my mom was still here. Just be greatful for your blessings.
2006-11-19 12:30:39 · answer #1 · answered by Dimples 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, it's ok not to feel bad about your mother dying. It's ok to feel bad about her leaving you and your sister with your Granny. As long as your Granny gave you and your sister love, and she raised you to be happy and find your own path, my mother was taken away from me when I was a baby, by the state because she was deaf. I got to meet her when I was 24, we had a decent relationship before she died, when she did I missed her, but I didn't feel sad, I know I will see her again in the ressurection, {she will be brought back to life} by God, so I needn't feel sad that she is sleeping in death. You may have some sad feelings later, you may not there's nothing wrong with you, your acting very normally to an abnormal event. Not everyone has had your experience, and you are responding to it very well
2016-05-22 05:21:56 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not alone...trust me. Family knows how to push our buttons and frustrate us beyond belief. I know, I have a family like that. They sure can hurt your feelings, but boy oh boy, don't hurt theirs! Honesty like you have done is the best thing to do. Let them know that you feel that way and how could anyone blame you. You made the effort to come home and this is the thanks you get?! Put the fear to them and say if they want to see you for Christmas they better start appreciating your part in the family. No matter what, we always need to be upfront and honest with our families. For some reason they think they can say and get away with anything; that is not right. Stand strong, be who you are, and tell them like it is, sister!
2006-11-19 12:43:24 · answer #3 · answered by daff73 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the 1st thing i want 2 say is u have a right to your feelings. 2nd i can't answer this question thoroughly without knowing what prompted the whole incident. we're missing why ma & sis teamed up u.
2006-11-19 12:47:31 · answer #4 · answered by Kiki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look i have that problem sometimes to but as right as u may thing u are u need to go talk to her tell her how u feel and she will talk back about her feelings then say your sorry and kiss her tell her that you love her because you never now what will happen tomorrow.well i hope i helped.
2006-11-19 14:08:32 · answer #5 · answered by soccersam522 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know sometimes mom will do it..
my mom do the same way also.. but lets we think bout her feeling.. she works at the day.. buzy here & busy there.. so i m the one who hurts her heart in my family.. & also i make her cry..
i swear i never thought tat i'd do that thing... i figure out the way to solve it off.. & finally i did it...
i talk to her by soft & explain to her.. the way we talk is the key..
just help her do something... do the thing tat can make her happy..
& also b close to her..
2006-11-19 12:41:05 · answer #6 · answered by Rosia R 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you both should sit down and talk and end the rivarly and save thanksgiving!
2006-11-19 12:27:20 · answer #7 · answered by I think... 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your feelings are your feelings. Your mother hurt your feelings, and you hurt hers. Try to keep the peace for the holiday.
2006-11-19 13:36:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 50 and my mother is 83 and she still puts me down. She doesn't see it so I just have minimal contact with her.
2006-11-19 12:20:35 · answer #9 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is your mother. You need to ask her to forgive you and let her give you a good spanking if she wants to.
2006-11-19 12:21:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋