last week my wife was called in by the teacher to have a meeting about her behavior. It seems at recess time she likes to chase little boys around while she flashes them. She's never done this before, as she's more into coloring and ponies. her sexual exploits are tearing the family apart and I dont know what to do anymore. is she going to grow up to be a whore? is there no hope? her granmother was babysitting her for a while and I think this may have something to do with it.
2006-11-19 11:43:32 · 18 answers · asked by blondepiaga 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Toddler & Preschooler
I AM KNOT A WEIRDO. I have two children, a wife, and a third on the way.
2006-11-19 13:33:25 · update #1
She's not "exposing" herself. She doesn't even know the word exisits...Most young children are fasinated with their own bodies, she is simply showing her pride in her's. Also little children don't like wearing clothes. They are natural born nudists. Nothing wrong with either behavior...except the anal adults who make a major issue out of something that is totally natural.
2006-11-19 12:13:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like all u sI'mply need to do is have "THE TALK" with her not the birds and the bee's the it's your body and no one should see it except when mommy or i give u a bath and the doctor when one of u is in the room with her. im afraid if u just let this go and blame and name call then the behavior will be reinforced and she'll continue to do it not to mention that if it goes to far then child protective services will step in. take her to the doctor he/she may be able to help u in ways no on her could even fathom. good luck
2006-11-25 17:06:22 · answer #2 · answered by LesHug 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your 3 yr. old is not boy crazy she is a small child who doesn't understand social behavior yet. Have you simply talked to her to get some idea of why she is doing this. Blame will not help. She doesn't understand why it is wrong. Explain it to her in terms she can understand. If this doesn't work you may need to talk to a professional. Unknown to you she may have be exposed to such behavior with somebody. She is innocent & not a pervert. Still it is time to look into this thing to see where it is coming from.
2006-11-19 19:52:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
This is a ridiculous question. Your daughter is THREE. She should'nt even know what a whore is. Blaming the grandmother does nothing, and makes you seem insensitive. Im sure that if you consult a child psychologist they will tell you that this is a normal child phase.
2006-11-19 20:20:29 · answer #4 · answered by Divegirl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Obviously a weirdo asking. You shouldn't be thinking of little girls in a sexual way. Get some help before your fantasies become realities. PS....Just looked at your other questions and I'm right about you being a weirdo, especially where kids are concerned.......PPS...I still stand by what I said about you being a weirdo. Just look at your questions
2006-11-19 19:50:13 · answer #5 · answered by Taylor29 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
My first question is what has she seen recently. Did she walk in on somebody? Did she see something on TV? Who has she been around that could have shown her the behavior? My best guess is that she is "parroting" some behavior she has seen recently. Do some digging and I bet you'll find the answer.
good luck
2006-11-19 19:51:12 · answer #6 · answered by evrythnnxs 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I think she is just playing.I don't think that she's going to grow up being a whore. Maybe sit down and tell her that exposing parts of her body that are covered with clothes are for no one to see that's why they have clothes.
2006-11-19 19:46:44 · answer #7 · answered by sunslover_19 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Get her professional help. Start with a doctor and a counselor. Do this before the school decided to contact social services on your family.
2006-11-19 19:49:27 · answer #8 · answered by erinjl123456 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Don't make a big deal out of it. She is only 3. She won't grow up to be a ***** for heaven's sake. The more you focus on it, the more she will do it for attention. Talk to your pediatrician.
2006-11-19 19:45:47 · answer #9 · answered by notyou311 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
oh my god shes 3 how can you ask if shes going to be a whore ???? listne to your self shes 3 she lerns by seing and what she gets attnetion for so find out if maybe she saw some one do this in real life or on tv and find out if shes getting attention for it if every one yells oh my god not stop and chases her around to get her clothes back on then yes shes getting attention for it she needsa reward /displin plan for this try to catch her being good instead of being bad if shes playing quietly in the back seat while your driveing say oh your being so good thank you that makes me happy this will give her positive attention so maybe she wont need the neagative and if she continues to do it make sure she gets a time out for it when her time out is up go to her tell her what she did wrong and if she does it again shell get time out again but i think the most important thing would be catch her being good to give her positive attention so she doesnt get caught being bad and get negative attention as far as their concerned some one is paying attention to them and only them weather they have to be bad or good to get it
2006-11-19 19:57:14 · answer #10 · answered by mommyofanangel06 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋