I know it's personal-but I need help with this.
2006-11-19 11:28:00 · 20 answers · asked by ♥HiS oNe && OnLy♥ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Respect his wishes and be glad he thinks enough of you to want more out of the relationship than sex.
2006-11-19 11:31:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
he's prob jus scared that he won't be able to pleasure you or please you because he's never had sex before...if he can get past dat fear then he probably will be ready. Or maybe he's scared of reaching his climax to early. IT's probably alot of fears going through his mind at once.but to change his mind (as bad as this may sound) you guys need sumtin to get rid of all ur inhibitions. If you guys drink....nows the time to do it. If he drinks i'm pretty sure you can convince him to have sex. He prob wants to do it..he jus needs sumthing to push him in the right direction. Or if you smoke you can get high, dat might help too. But trust me the drinking thing will work..lol
2006-11-19 19:37:33 · answer #2 · answered by udon'tknome731 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Respect his wishes. Don't try to change his mind. If you try, he will likely resent that you don't respect him, and he'll break it off with you.
Sex is not the end-all-be-all of a relationship. Focus on what IS good in your relationship, and take the other matters in to your own hands . . . . so to speak.
2006-11-19 19:33:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how long have you two been together?how young are you?if you're both minors,I'd say don't push him to have sex with you.you should be thankful coz he's not taking advantage of you.he's not like other guys out there.but,did you ask him why he isn't ready?i mean,are there any other reasons?coz i have a friend before who had the same problem like yours.it turned out that her bf was gay!well,they're best friends now.
better talk to him again...and don't rush things.
Good Luck!
2006-11-19 20:15:36 · answer #4 · answered by taken_24 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suppose if your dead set, then be relentless. The hormones will eventually take over and desire will be gained! If you want this to be special then just take some cold showers and be patient. Good things come to those who wait! Times, are a changing! :)
2006-11-19 19:35:46 · answer #5 · answered by smplyme132 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The worst you can do is push him. He be ready when he's ready! Patience is a virtue. Believe me, the first time will be well worth the wait!
2006-11-19 19:31:43 · answer #6 · answered by missbubbles 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
first off,,,how old are the 2 of you,,if under age,,maybe thats why the boy has "cold feet" about having sex
2006-11-19 19:31:16 · answer #7 · answered by kkahn9dodge 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont change his mind give him time
2006-11-19 19:57:53 · answer #8 · answered by hillaryfan16 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, you shouldn't try to change his mind. If you persuade him to have sex with you before he is ready, he may resent you for it later. It is actually best to wait until you are married to your partner before having sex anyway.......
2006-11-19 19:31:40 · answer #9 · answered by YellaMelaDude 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hi don't push it, wait a while, in the meantime think of me making out with u xo
2006-11-19 19:34:51 · answer #10 · answered by kn n 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋