Dont get me wrong I love my mom but lately I've wanted to go live with my aunt. I guess it's because my parents are seperated and I always wanted to have a real family and I love my aunts family. What should I do?
2006-11-19 11:01:06 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Answer this question? Do you and your mom get along? If the answer is yes then she doesn't need you leaving her too think about her and yourself. I know you say you want a family but you have one with your mom. Be thankful you have her to be there for you.
2006-11-19 11:10:39 · answer #1 · answered by groundpilot43061 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When parents split its hard. Its all trial and error. With my kids we created a family night. On those nights we sat down & made rules of our house that incorporated all of us & did crafts,etc.. Keep in mind even though mom & dad are split up.. They still both love you very much. Maybe you & mom can start doing more things together as a family or have family dinners with your aunts over. I found that staying close with family helped my kids alot. It kept things more normal.
2006-11-19 19:45:15 · answer #2 · answered by Kammaka2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your aunt's family may look good from the outside, but remember that your mom is your blood. She will always be there for you - until they day she dies.
That is important. Your aunt may be nice to you for a while, but she probably does have the same attachment to you as your mom.
2006-11-19 19:21:26 · answer #3 · answered by Stareyes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try a trial time at you Aunts. You never really know the" ins and outs" of a family until you've lived with them for awhile.
2006-11-19 19:08:44 · answer #4 · answered by cybefree 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well,as you probably know many parents split in our days.We can not judge that this is not the point...the point is :family can exist without father but if you run away from your mum,you loose the last chance you have to have a family.No mother how perfect your aunt's family can seems to be.....is not your family.My parents are still together but one thing I know for sure,If they would ever split I would never let my mum behind.One day I will be mother I pray god to have a doter to be with me if my husband would let me down one day.I will not be related in any how with my husband but my kid is my blood.Any mother would choose his child if she would have to make a choice so I am asking you :is that fair to do different then her?
2006-11-19 19:22:05 · answer #5 · answered by michaela 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your Mom needs you there to help her I would say that you should stay there with your Mom. If not she would be all alone. It also depends on how well you get along with your Mom and how long ago the separation was. many things to consider.
2006-11-19 20:20:34 · answer #6 · answered by phoenix 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋