i am in love with a guy through internet..and we wanna meet each other now after one year..i trully trust him..he wanna travel to my country to visit me..we always talk by cam..i saw more than 100 pics from him and all his family and sometimes i chat with his sister..we talk in yahoo everyday..if not we mail and say all what we did during the day..even what we eat for lunch..he say he love me and i love him so much..just the matter of culture and language can be a big issue?
2006-11-19 10:56:04 · 24 answers · asked by binam 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It can be a challenge. If each of you are willing to meet that challenge, it would be worth a try. I would suggest meeting in person. Just talking and emailing over the Internet is not the same as in person. Long distance relationships are hard enough alone, then you have the different cultures and the language barriers. My cousin met his wife who didn't speak English. They are now married and have a child. They are doing wonderful. She was already here in America and they didn't have the long distance challenge to overcome.
You would have to talk about who would move where if the relationship progressed. Who would be willing to give up living near their family etc... You have to see if he is the person you think he really is over the internet. Best wishes to you.
2006-11-19 11:01:57 · answer #1 · answered by Stephanie F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-11-19 19:00:20 · answer #2 · answered by aznflipgurl808 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actual "love" is not available on the web. It is merely a way to make first contact. There is however, the potential for fantasy and lust to be expressed this way. The real test is real world action, not merely pictures and words. Many men have made this mistake pre-Internet with 'mail order brides'. Great on paper, a disaster in reality.
Be extremely cautious of any "love" you imagine yourself to be in. There are elaborate scams that have 'the works' fake pictures, fake relatives, all for the purpose of extracting money from gullible and lonely people. Don't say nobody told you. An international relationship is wrought with all kinds of trouble. Find yourself a boyfriend you don't have to travel thousands of miles to meet. Oh, it's also a well used ploy to get U.S. citizenship by marriage. This too is a scam.
2006-11-19 19:05:06 · answer #3 · answered by The Oldest Man In The World 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure. But the first few times you meet make sure to meet in a very public place and maybe even bring a friend along just to be safe. This might be all part of his master plan to kidnap, rape, and kill you or something. You might not be the only person that he talks to like that. I'd suggest maybe a date at a big sporting event or something where there are lots of people around.
2006-11-19 18:59:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My sister met her husband online shes a hard person to live with she goes through men pretty quickly *L* but anyways she met her husband online over 2 years ago they have 1 daugther together and have another on the way (he has 1 daughter from a previous marriage, and she has 3 from previous encounters so to speak) and they couldn't be happier they never fight or anything which is a miracle because shes a pain to everyone. I'm in love with someone in Australia been talking to him for 8 1/2 years and I trust him completely, in fact I talk to his mum and his siblings, I just haven't had the money to get over there, or other things come up. So if you believe in your heart that he's the one for you then go for it and have fun. :-D
2006-11-19 19:01:36 · answer #5 · answered by athenajade 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I have a cousin who married a woman who he fell in love with over the internet, but as far as I know they are very happy together. I would be very careful though. Even though you talk to him every day and have seen pics of him and all his family and even talked to his sister, you can't be really sure about him until you meet him and get to know him a lot more.
Good luck!
2006-11-19 19:07:27 · answer #6 · answered by kiwi_mum1966 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's more than culture and language. Where will you live? How will he work? Are you willing to move to a foreign country? Can you support him when he is unable to work or communicate here? What if you discover you can't get along in person? Where will you live? Use caution- you're living in a fantasy world right now.
2006-11-19 18:59:59 · answer #7 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how old you guys are, your locations, if your/his parents/guardians know about this. If his parents/guardians don't know about this and he is under the age of 18 yrs I'm pretty sure that if he is traveling to a different country he can be forced back to his country by law. Someone else did something like this they fell in love on Myspace and then she tried to go to some middle-eastern country and they forced her back to the US where she lived at the time.
2006-11-19 19:01:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm.... Just some advices, whatever you see online is only one sided story. You have not see a complete picture of this person and family. You may jump to a conclusion of " loving" a person.
It takes way, way, way more than just webcam, photo, emails, chat to have a relationship working.
Just keep that in mind.
Good luck1
2006-11-19 18:59:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds very romantic but for safety's sake, I'd suggest that you have another person with you when you meet him for the first time. You should be able to tell if he's the person you believe him to be. I wish you luck and much happiness. If it works out, you'll have a very romantic story to tell. All the best.
2006-11-19 19:00:50 · answer #10 · answered by love2travel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋