I am trying to fight this battle inside my head. I want answers as to why I should be ok with him veiwing teen porn sites. Or these sites at all. Is it just the nature of a man?
2006-11-19 10:52:27 · 14 answers · asked by lu06sh 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No. It's not the "nature of man." Some guys might use that as an excuse. You know, boys will be boys. But the reality is, it's a big red flag that something is wrong. You do not have to be ok with it. If it bothers you, then it should matter enough to him. It's creepy that he is going specifically to sites labeled "teen."
I wonder...you made a point to describe yourself as "petite." Are you worried on some level that he is attracted to you physically because your body reminds him of a teenager or a child? Also, viewing implied kiddie porn has nothing to do with you meeting his sexual needs. His interest or possible sickness, is completely separate from you.
2006-11-19 11:06:55 · answer #1 · answered by yellowbugchickoh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-07-19 06:21:57 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oy! A lot more behind this than it would appear at first glance. Men are visually stimulated. Is it their nature to view porn? No, its a choice just like beer vs wine. No one can really give you reasons either way. You and he need to discuss this in a mature and frank way as to :why he does; how it makes you feel; why you don't approve of porn; how it distrupts/enhances his experience with and apart from you; how the two of you can use porn or come to a compromise. The answers for your relationship should come from you. As to my opinion on porn - the wife and I use it to kick start the night and help her simmer while I recuperate. To us its a tool comprised of fantasys. Hope this helps!
2006-11-19 11:15:42 · answer #3 · answered by klingongac 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO it is not okay to watch teen porn sites or other porn sites, I would get him some counseling.
2006-11-19 10:56:19 · answer #4 · answered by snoop_dougie_doug04 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it is the nature of man but we are supposed to fight it! you should definatly NOT be OK with it. he is cheating on you! hope you solve your problem. God bless
2006-11-19 10:56:00 · answer #5 · answered by Lfeata 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no! NO!!! At best he has hang ups, at worse that watching is what he does best. Sometimes men can develop strange behavior you do want him to share with you.
2006-11-19 10:56:59 · answer #6 · answered by longroad 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not okay....your 51 yr old is a creep...get rid of him fast like.....
2006-11-19 10:55:23 · answer #7 · answered by iluvcats58 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no that is very wrong stop it immediately it might start out as a phase and grow to an obsession.
2006-11-19 10:56:01 · answer #8 · answered by Pretty "N" Simple 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, definately not. He has lust for other women. That is wrong if you are in a commited relationship.
2006-11-19 11:01:13 · answer #9 · answered by :-) literary cappy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Underage? It's illegal in just about every state.
2006-11-19 10:54:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋