Do you agree that hating others is like burning your house down to kill a rat??

Question

think about it. Who is being hurt by your anger and resentments?? Probably you the most. Lets let go of baggage. Stop finger pointing.

Never answer with "because they....well if they would.....or why cant they just...."

Talk about you, not others.

Just some principles we should all practice, me included.

I sincerely want to see freedom in here. It starts with the person in the mirror, not someone else.

So.....is hating (or resenting) others like burning your own house down in order to kill a rat??

Answer 1

Yeah...

and I have another one...

"be patient on the hater's hate
for your patience kills him
for the fire eats it self
if it doesn't find what to eat.

It's translated from another language, so it doesn't sound perfect.

Answer 2

There are much easier ways to kill a rat, and no matter what you do to a rat, it's still a rat! Now that the sarcasm is out of the way though, I agree 100% with your statement about the anger and hate sir. It makes me sick. I would like to know myself whatever happened to respect? I have always said if you can't agree, then just "agree to disagree", and let it go.

Answer 3

Yes totally:

http://www.arbinger.com/C2/ArbingerHome/default.aspx?Page=Home

http://www.religioustolerance.org/

http://www.peacemideast.org/openletter-links.htm

http://www.cactus48.com/



Good Luck, Peace, Shalom, Salam, Paz, Nabad.

Answer 4

Hatred a malignant form of cancer of the mind, it grows and burns in the hearts and minds of some people, It can make you physically sick, and it separates the soul from the body. It is so important to learn to love, and have compassion, respect for fellow man. Humanity needs a wake up call in this department. God bless.

Answer 5

By all means. So why don't we all live it? Hatred, over time, turns to obsession and thus your life is based on that person. Whether you like it or not, you have made your life about that person and thus given them power over you. You will eat yourself alive from the inside out with frustration and stress which has been proven to lead to more severe mental disorders and even physical disorders.

Answer 6

the 1st is while i exchange into nursing. My mom nursed me until i exchange into previous 3, and that i did a similar with my females. I submit to in thoughts being in the balcony of church as a youthful newborn and that i had to nurse, yet my mom refused, for sure. i does not provide up, and that i submit to in thoughts getting very mad and shouting (for the duration of a prayer, no much less) "i want a boobie!". The pastor approached her after church and reminded her there's a nursery there, and he or she ought to apply it. additionally, on condition that I nurse my toddlers see you later, they study tricks like status to nurse, sitting next to me on the settee and turning their heads to nurse, and my youngest could get the milk began, enable bypass, and then drink love that's a eating fountain. or only carry her mouth open and step lower back and attempt to capture it in her mouth. loopy! There are only way too many circumstances I definitely have leaked, soaked, squirted, been asked for milk by utilising toddlers at beside the point circumstances, etc. as quickly as i exchange into having a storage sale with my chum and the baby exchange into basically 6 months old. i exchange into sitting in the chair nursing her close to the backyard while something startled or fascinated the baby, and he or she enable bypass only as my enable-down occured. My chum laughed so not ordinary, simply by fact it exchange into squirting 5 ft out, and as she suggested, "you may water the backyard with those issues!"

Answer 7

Yes this is a good way to look at it. Also hate is a cancer that spreads through your body it makes you deathly ill and eventually it is the person who does the hating that it kills

Answer 8

Sort of like, "Cutting off your nose to spite your face."

Last I knew, my nose wasn't threatening my freedoms, and promising to obliterate my homeland and countrymen.

I can always rebuild the house, but the rat has to GO!

Answer 9

what you think Jesus never suffered pointing and pointed fingers ,obviously u must be a new christian dude, the bible says anyone who wants to live Godly will suffer persecution,, Jesus talked mored about judgment then heaven,He was always trying to warn the people,,,read the old testament,jerimiah,ezekiel,etc....their whole life was about warning of incoming judgment.

Answer 10

Such simple phrase but so much information and truth. Is that orignal? I agree with you 100%. What a great phrase.