I have been feeling kinda bad lately. A lot of the time I am too tired or too sore for sex. Anyone have any suggestions on what I can do for him so he still knows that I care and so we can still be close?? If you have any suggestions please let me know. Thanks.
2006-11-19 10:08:55 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
There are plenty of other things you can do while pregnant... check out some Kama Sutra stuff. Not everything has to lead to sex- you can do tons of massage that will really show him that you care, as well as keeping you physically close. Just change it up in the bedroom a little- use some candles, massage oil- and make sure that you get in on the action too! (You are the one who is most uncomfortable in this situation, anyway). You have to get creative at this time in your relationship... talk with your partner about what would make him feel good. I'll bet he'll come up with lots of stuff that doesn't involve sex. Have fun!
2006-11-19 10:24:16 · answer #1 · answered by dolphin mama 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm glad I have an uderstanding husband adn "sex" don't really matter to him...if he gets it okay if not okay. I gave him back rubs and he would give me one. We would snuggle and talk and just love each other in different ways. when i felt like it we would but I always took special time for the two of us to be alone.
good luck...and to add this. Sex is part of a relationship not all of it. If it is that important then where is the rest of the relationship stand?
2006-11-19 11:38:45 · answer #2 · answered by evrythnnxs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be affectionate, lots of hugs and kisses. But also be honest with him, you're pregnant and you don't feel like a sex kitten right now. Only have sex or oral when YOU want to, don't let guilt or pressure force you into it.
2006-11-19 10:18:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
One I haven't been in the mood for like two months now. If he is understanding he will know that you just are not in the mood. If you want to help him there is oral sex, hand jobs, buy him a toy, cuddle with him, love him, massages, just letting him know that you are not in the mood and don't know when you will be.
2006-11-19 11:28:10 · answer #4 · answered by sleepyincarolina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do some small things. Give him a back rub. Hug him a lot. You might not be feeling like having sex but you can still be affectionate. He'd appreciate it.
2006-11-19 10:12:55 · answer #5 · answered by MTY 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to pretend to be in the mood. Trust me, you don't want to nelect your husband, specially while you're pregnant. He already feels like you won't pay much attention to him when the baby is born. Tough it out and give him a bj once in a while.
2006-11-19 10:21:14 · answer #6 · answered by Miss Jay 3 · 0⤊ 4⤋
oral sex????
2006-11-19 10:12:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋