ok I met this guy on the net about a week and a half ago. We've been talking nonstop since then on the phone. I met him in person, and we both liked each other. All we did was kiss. So like two days later he stops calling me, and I wonder what's up. So this morning I email him, and he says that he likes me and all, but he wants to take things slow and not move to fast. He also tells me that I should take some initative. Granted he was calling me the most in the begining, but now all a sudden he stops. what's up?
2006-11-19 09:59:30 · 14 answers · asked by MIKE M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he may have been infatuated with the idea of a voice on the phone or just talking on the computer. He probably feel in love with that voice and in your mind u always have a picture in your head according to the description and the voice and now that he saw u mayne u r not what he expected and taking it slow is just another way for him not to hurt your feeling and say he doesnt like u after meeting
2006-11-19 10:09:24 · answer #1 · answered by Queenleo21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He feels like he's doing all the work and wants you to call him some of the time. Since you've already met, it should be easy enough to plan a date for the two of you.
2006-11-19 10:05:51 · answer #2 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's meeting lots of people from the net....and is trying to decide who he likes best. You can try to continue contact...but if you don't get the response you're looking for after a week or two...move on...cause he has!
2006-11-19 10:04:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Taking it slow is a good idea- sounds like he wants you to call him- since he said he wants you to take some initiative_ looks like he wants you to call=D
2006-11-19 10:03:00 · answer #4 · answered by Debby B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he wants to see if you really like him by seeing if you will call him when he doesnt call you. It sounds stupid but he may just want to know if you do care or not.
2006-11-19 10:03:14 · answer #5 · answered by Melinda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
follow your instincts. you can do better than a guy who's gonna treat you like that. if he doesn't like you, he should've had the balls to tell you upfront, sounds like you're way too good for that. move on sweetie, you can doo it.
2006-11-19 10:03:34 · answer #6 · answered by asuchick1328 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants to take it slow.
2006-11-19 10:03:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He moved into his parents house and he has another girl.
2006-11-19 10:05:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I done the same thing .I got scared and days go by and it is harder to get back to her
2006-11-19 10:04:59 · answer #9 · answered by Victorio 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he doesnt like you anymore besides it is never very good to meet someone throught the internet.
2006-11-19 10:01:56 · answer #10 · answered by Brandi P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋