I'm in highschool and I like to play football and basketball and a few weeks ago I got a small cut on the bottom of my cheek near my jawline about 1/4 inch long. It has since closed up and is a pale white-colored scar that sort of stands out on my cocoa-colored skin. I'm kinda shy around girls so I can't really ask for their opinion about the scar. Occasionally a girl tells me I'm cute but I don't really know if they mean it...So I'm asking the ladies on here..would you be turned away by the scar on my cheek or scars in general?
2006-11-19 09:41:02 · 18 answers · asked by Being Myself 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think it would take an extremely superficial girl to be turned away by scars, especially one that small. I wouldn't worry about it if I were you~ Try not to be so self-conscious about it. The more you worry over it, the more people will wonder if they should worry over it, too.
2006-11-19 09:45:24 · answer #1 · answered by Starian24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As you grow the scar will be less noticeable. If a girl tells you that you are cute it means that they like you silly. Don't be so self conscious. That's a pretty small scar and I'm the girls look at the whole picture not just the scar.
2006-11-19 17:47:00 · answer #2 · answered by unicornfarie1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course NOT. You know why: it gives you a personal egde. Seriously. It says something about you: That you are not scared of taking risks in life (injures from a sport you like to play) Bth, your scar is only 1/4 inch long...well, all I can say is, when a girl says you are cute, she means it (and that includes the whole person of you because girls normally see a guy as a full package incl. personality and looks which we find cute or not).
So, do yourself a favor and forget about your scar. Everybody has small things they don't like about themselves but when you keep thinking about your tiny scar you will always be so self-absorbed with fear and thoughts about your scar that you can't open up to people and show them who you really are.
2006-11-19 17:47:03 · answer #3 · answered by Caro 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like scars, they have a story to tell. You watch, soon a girl will say "oooh, how did you get that scar" and there is your chance to start a conversation.
If it really bothers you, try to remember its still very young and will fade a lot with time. There is a good product called Bio Oil you can get from a chemist, its cheap and it actually works to fade scars.
2006-11-19 17:47:02 · answer #4 · answered by kate d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, scars are natural everyone at least once in their lifetime will get a scar. I wouldn't worry about it tell girls how you got it and if you got it for a lame reason make up a better one you just might impress a girl.
2006-11-19 17:45:18 · answer #5 · answered by Casandra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Scars happen, I'm sure you look fine. No, I would not be turned away by a scar... Not to mention, it will fade with time.
2006-11-19 17:43:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never ever would a scar make me turn from a man. You are you for who you are inside not out.
2006-11-19 17:43:56 · answer #7 · answered by susanne l 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If someone doesn't like you because a scar, then you don't want her. I have a few scars on my stomach, but I call them my road to love. So, make it your road to lots of kisses. Good luck ~~~
2006-11-19 17:45:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Scars are a part of life. I wouldn't be put off by it at all.
2006-11-19 17:50:51 · answer #9 · answered by missingora 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I actually think that scars are a total turn on, as long as they arent too big. They make guys look more macho. lol, but yah
2006-11-19 17:45:26 · answer #10 · answered by lindsay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋