why do women get so disaponted when a guy doesnt that she got a new hair style or got a new dress and other sh*t like that ?
does it really matter that much?
why the hell is it such a big deal ?
2006-11-19 09:33:33 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The big deal is in a relationship I feel one should always notice and appreciate the Little things about ones partner. It is part of making one's partner secure.
2006-11-22 19:32:39 · answer #1 · answered by mumtaz 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you never improving yourself and want others to notice that new thing you got for your car, the cool program or hot new DVD burner which will allow you to backup your datat within 10 min. in only one DVD?
See, women do that with her appearance. btw, what do you like in a women the first place when you meet her/fall in love with her? I guess it's not her sense of humor or any other characteristica rather than her appearance, right? So, it won't hurt to look at 'your' woman closer once.
2006-11-19 17:41:17 · answer #2 · answered by Caro 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you mean in a relationship, like my husband. I would rather get comments from my husband as how I look then from other men. Not that I mind them, I would truly appreciate my husband to appreciate me! I had a gentleman say to my husband this weekend in front of me, Your wife is hot! with a big smile. I like the acknowledgment, however, I would love my husband to say "your hot" more often so I know he still finds me attractive. Hope this helps you understand.
2006-11-19 17:40:37 · answer #3 · answered by flower 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
from my perspective, i think that that those things you mentioned above; it helps boost a female's self esteem or confidence. it may also try to test you to see how much attention you actually pay to them.
it may be that they are so used to being the center of attention, they expect it from you and get bent out of shape when you dont because it makes them feel less of a person than what they felt like before.
it can be different reasons for all the many women who do that.
2006-11-19 17:37:49 · answer #4 · answered by bjperez07 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a big deal because they went spent money on something nice tht catch your best interest. If anything you should be happy that they dont look like a bum or some **** lik that why cant you appriciat the little things be happy.
2006-11-19 17:37:07 · answer #5 · answered by midnight princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To a woman thiose arn't little things. Getting a new color of finger nail polish is a little thing. A new dress or hair style is like huge. Just learn to be more observant, its not our fault.
2006-11-19 17:35:55 · answer #6 · answered by TheSkysTheLimit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually it would help if they paid attention to the big things. But the little things do matter. Wouldn't it bother you if you tried to improve your appearance and she didn't even notice?
2006-11-19 17:39:24 · answer #7 · answered by DJ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its a big deal because women are trying to impress you with a new hair do etc and you dont seam to notice
2006-11-19 17:37:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because when men notice the little things it means they are paying attention.
2006-11-19 17:36:27 · answer #9 · answered by Clarissa 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
B/C they do it ALL 4 their GUY!!!!
(DUH!!!) WE spend so much time worrying what you will think of us, and spend even more time making ourselves look fabulous, so our guy will be proud to call us his girlfriend!!!
and when you don't take the time 2 notice, it makes us feel like you don't care.
2006-11-19 17:37:08 · answer #10 · answered by ♥Charming's Princess♥ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋