my bf moved away...and i am so lonely...how do get over him
2006-11-19 08:52:48 · 22 answers · asked by TARA L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ask yourself this question: Why do I care about him so much? Depending on how long ago the move was.....9 times out of 10 he has most likely moved on. Something tells me that this "obsession" with your boyfriend is because you are afraid of what you are capable of. What I mean by this is that you have been with your boyfriend for so long that now that he is gone you're afraid to be with someone else. Feeling this way is perfectly fine!!! It's natural to feel alone, but let's not throw a pitty party. Something tells me you're a smart, pretty person with the potential to do anything. SO STOP WASTING TIME AND GO HAVE SOME FUN!!!!!.
2006-11-19 09:00:05 · answer #1 · answered by clesha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i moved away from my ex-boyfriend about some months ago what i did to get over him is listen to music or find someone else, dont stress yourself because u still young u are gonna go through a lot of relationships and its gonna be plenty of times like this in the future just dont be so down find other things to take your mind off him if u want too u can I.M. me at Te_qu_illa and i will help u the best way i can.
2006-11-19 16:57:54 · answer #2 · answered by ki-ki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a new bf. Girls have it easy. They can walk up to most guys and start talking and get away with it. A guy tries that and most of the time he gets put down. Good luck. There are lots of nice guys out there who would just love to have a nice girl start talking to them.
2006-11-20 02:14:03 · answer #3 · answered by Jim V 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take care of yourself...my favourite thing to do is go to the gym. You build your own Independence this way..and you never know who you are going to meet. This is what I did when I broke up with my last boyfriend. I started going to the gym and all of a sudden I started to feel GREAT, changed my eating habits and managed with time to tone my body. At the same time as loving the way I look, my mind, spirit as well as my outlook on life changed too. You must love who you are. Be independent. YOU are the only person that can change the way YOU feel. This is something that has helped a lot of my friends get over ex's as well and they became different, wonderful people that can take care of themselves. Don't say " I can't afford to" think of it as an investment for yourself and your wonderful future of friends and family years to come.....XOXO....Best of luck to you!!!!!
2006-11-19 17:14:45 · answer #4 · answered by Kelly V 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever heard of that saying, " Replace the L in love with another L". The word rebound is popular for a reason. You don't have to be alone. Loneliness can over power what is truly right.
2006-11-19 16:59:31 · answer #5 · answered by Victoria 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From the ex-man to the next man!!! Try dating a new guy or guys... just dating, though... a new realtionship might not work right now because you still miss your ex... it helps to get over your ex if you have a few dates.
2006-11-19 16:55:23 · answer #6 · answered by jae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Focus on something that you have been putting off. Or do something new. You'll miss him for a while but if you have a great task to do you will get over him.
P.S Something new always comes along
2006-11-19 17:00:31 · answer #7 · answered by Avangelis 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
after my breakup with my ex i had cryd myself out,eyes so red n swoll,lookn like oooweeehhhhh!,i tell u plz dont take this route but its common for the humannature to react like this,so go ahead n cry ur river of tears n move on,it may take a week r two to adjust to new changes but all things happens for good reasons, is mr rite is out there? he maybe wasnt the one , but if he was n it was real,well u already know,he will be back for u,till then i would be gettin dress goin out on many dates thru the 1st 3wks of breakup n havin weekly ladies nite out,dont spend none of ur time at home cryin ladies!mr rite is out there!goodluck to all! GO GO GO CATCH HIM!
2006-11-19 17:26:00 · answer #8 · answered by remy red 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Crying and eating ice cream for a few weeks always worked for me.
Put a time limit on it, though. Let yourself wallow in misery for, say, a month. After that, force yourself to get out and about and live again.
2006-11-19 16:54:20 · answer #9 · answered by dingobluefoot 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Get a new BF and move on!!!
2006-11-19 16:58:50 · answer #10 · answered by Wolf Apple 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋