Like everyone, I've dated around. I came to a point where enough was enough...and I'm confused. I have been looking for a long term relationship for about two years now. On that note, I have gone on myspace, asked friends if they knew guys, and tried all sorts of things. On myspace, I went through profiles till I was sick of doing so. It seems that nearly every guy who is under 40 in the country is only interested in sex. So, out of curiosity, am I the only guy in college that is looking for a lifelong thing? People keep telling me to wait, but that's not working. So the two questions are (1) Am I the only guy in the age range 18-25 who is looking for a long term relationship? (2) If not, what should I be doing to meet the right guy? Thanks.
2006-11-19 08:52:25 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
True love is hard for all of us, sweet pea, it isn't just you...
2006-11-19 08:59:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
every guy straight or gay under and over the age of 40 is interested in sex...
relax the whole love thing comes on its own no need to try really hard to find it.
my mom's best friends are a gay male couple....
they have been together more than 35 years now since they are together from the age of 18.
when you meet your soul mate i guess you will know
good luck
2006-11-19 16:57:45 · answer #2 · answered by irini d 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
At least you are accepting who you are. Maybe the people you are seeking are not truely gay. Maybe your not truely gay. It's kinda hard to be truely gay if you can't commit to a gay relationship and be open about it, right? Thats how I see it. To answer your question...."no your not the only guy looking for mr. right." To mee the right guy, I suppose you should continue to meet yourself and get in complete touch with that and then keep looking occasionally for men that look interesting.
2006-11-19 17:02:31 · answer #3 · answered by Jeff W 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
im with you totally. i am 23 and waiting for mr. right to wander through my life. i'm not just looking for sex - i want the whole deal. but doesnt it seem like all the men want out there is a good ride? its frustrating. but anyway, in answer to your questions:
1) if you are, then im not who i think i am - we're in this together
2) the right guy will come into your life because it was meant to happen - dont force it. you'll meet him
good luck
Max
2006-11-19 16:55:49 · answer #4 · answered by maxman 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
don't listen to all of them heaters....i hope you know that there are people that do support gay marriages and gay people=) and i believe that you are not the only man looking trust me there are plenty..and now and days more and more homosexuals are coming out of the closet!!=) and that's great!on day they will recognize gay marriages as a regular!! and I'll be happy...and i hope you find the guy of your dreams....GOOD LUCK and MUCH LOVE!!!!=D
2006-11-19 17:06:20 · answer #5 · answered by hotsauce 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this is the same question the girls ask straight guys- there is only personal matches out there and you gotta make change as the opportunity demand
2006-11-19 16:59:03 · answer #6 · answered by bev 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The more gay men the more girls for me!
2006-11-19 16:58:05 · answer #7 · answered by Believe me 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
i'm sorry to tell you this, but u have to wait. i do not support gay marriges tho sorry. really. i think that gay guys r really good friends tho. please, be straight !!!! it might work if u try!!!!!
2006-11-19 16:57:35 · answer #8 · answered by L 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i wish you were the only gay male in the world
2006-11-19 16:54:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 4⤋