im so confused for what to do wth my relationship with my boyfriend......i really like him though! we having been going out for 2 month and 1week!!! im not used to being in long term relationships and i really dont know what to do! some one please help me
2006-11-19 08:48:02 · 10 answers · asked by Shelley 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oo and im young of cousre imma think 2 months and 1 week is long! im only 15 and i ahve never been with sumin for longer than 2 weeks..so dont say nuttin stupid!
2006-11-19 09:10:00 · update #1
i have had this problem before.... and yea, things do get boring real fast..... but if you really care about him, dont just sit around and hope things get more exciting because they wont, and you might lose him. by this time in your relationship, the initial spark is starting to wear off, but dont lose faith. things only get more fun and more romantic the longer you are together.
you are probably wondering if he will do something sweet and loving to make you want him more, and believe me honey, chances are he is wondering the same thing so........
in my experiance, guys like to know how much you want them, and they like to know you care. try treating him to a movie one night, or maybe paying for dinner a couple times. and dont always expect him to make all the moves, but dont make all of them yourself. but give things time, i promise it gets better, but for the time being, focus on the good things and why you got together in the first place.
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2006-11-19 09:01:24 · answer #1 · answered by Jezyka Isabella 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with keeping the relationship going. Fact is you are not legally tied together so at any point you can end the relationship. Enjoy it until it runs out of steam, have fun. Again, you call the shots and when it runs out of steam...end it!
2006-11-19 08:52:05 · answer #2 · answered by Mike Sugarwood 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Two months and 2 weeks is long term?. Little girl, you got a lot to learn.
2006-11-19 08:52:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well what are you confused about? 2 months and 1 week but how many times have you gone out? And have you slept with him yet?
2006-11-19 08:50:28 · answer #4 · answered by Believe me 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just enjoy it. Don't be a girl that just want guy for a while then go to another one. Enjoy teh days and evenings with him, go out to dinners, movies, walks and anything else. Because if you like him, he might lick you too.
2006-11-19 08:52:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try it out! See if you can deal with something long term and if you can't deal with the long term thing, he probually is not the right guy for you!
2006-11-19 08:50:52 · answer #6 · answered by Holly Ann 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
9 weeks?
would u like another 9 weeks?
sometimes u do meet the one u love
2006-11-19 08:52:19 · answer #7 · answered by giddy 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just realax and go with the flow if it doesn't feel like you want to be in the realtionship just tell him you want to be friends
2006-11-19 08:51:29 · answer #8 · answered by Positivitydeepbreathing 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what are you talking about,you call 2months and 1 week a long term please
2006-11-19 09:07:44 · answer #9 · answered by kency 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋