I mean he will go and say something I dont like, to me just to get me angry or in a bad mood...he has even admitted this, he is 32 years old btw.
He will antagonize me to the point where I just start screaming at him and he does it on purpose, I dont understand it.
He actually likes to piss me off and cause me stress, I am 26.
Why does he do this???
2006-11-19 08:46:07 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
Hes very immature. He wants your attention and bad attention is better than none. Ignore him, I know it will be difficult but juts walk away. He may stop doing it. He may also need therapy....;
2006-11-19 08:48:54 · answer #1 · answered by huggz 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps he has trust/abandonment issues from his past or a past relationship and he is testing you. Is is punishing you for anything that happened before you got married?
Did he grow up in an environment where people got mad a lot? Maybe he wants to communicate something to you and doesn't know any other way?
Does he know why he does this? There must be a reason because if he just actually likes to get you upset and this causes enjoyment for you then you made a huge mistake in marrying someone who gets his jollies out of seeing you upset. That ain't love sister.
2006-11-19 17:14:39 · answer #2 · answered by Sue P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people get sexually aroused by conflict. Sounds strange, I know, but it does happen. Perhaps he is trying to make you angry so that you will have sex with him to make up later. Perhaps he is verbally abusive now but might progress to physical abuse. Be careful. Perhaps what you need to do is ignore his remarks or just leave when he starts doing this. If there is no reaction, there is no fun.
2006-11-19 16:51:41 · answer #3 · answered by dbarnes3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is abusive. Why do you start screaming at him-you sound like you have a short fuse too. Walk away. If you stay he will keep it up, if he realizes he can't get to you he will stop. You both sound immature.
2006-11-19 16:50:36 · answer #4 · answered by laundry? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's possible that he wants negative attention because he feels he's not getting any attention at all. Or that he likes aggravating you because you are younger than him. Or it's simply his personality.
You might want to seek couples counseling, because this just doesn't sound healthy at all.
2006-11-19 16:54:48 · answer #5 · answered by nosleepthree 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he is one that has to have drama in his life i know some people like that. were if everything is going OK they freak out
2006-11-19 16:54:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's bored and immature. And you're an easy mark, don't react and he would probably stop.
2006-11-19 17:01:31 · answer #7 · answered by territizzyb 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is way older than you and is sexually turned on when you get wild.
2006-11-19 18:21:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
is he a drunk?
2006-11-19 16:47:32 · answer #9 · answered by alex 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋