I've liked this boy for 2 years and he got expelled and when he came back all these old feelings came rushing back and it hurts me when I see him with these 2 other girls. And I've been crying over him all this week, and I know he'll never like me bcuz I'm not popular and I'm practically invisible to every1. But I'm not sure if it's love or just an obsession. But everytime I see him it hurts me.
2006-11-19 08:39:57 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Also, he does drugs and drinks and he's popular. And every 4th prd he comes and stands or sits next to me, but he never says anything. He always catches me staring or looking at him also.
2006-11-19 09:11:29 · update #1
I know how you feel. The same thing happen to me when I was in high school. Tell him that you like him or even have one of your friends tell him for you like I did. Unfortunately in my case, a relationship never occurred and I didn't get over the guy until I transferred to a new school. Just tell how you feel and go from there. If he's not interest, just move on no matter how much it may hurt.
2006-11-19 09:02:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You aren't popular, but you can make yourself noticeable. So what if he doesn't like you - theres no telling if you 2 would work out or not. He may become some abusive drunk/crack head. I'm grown now, but I went through the ugly duckling stage when I was in school, and now, I can't walk out my door without a guy trying to talk to me. Concentrate on your grades, cause life doesn't end in high school, when ur grown, all that stuff will be insignificant. Actually, after graduation you may not see any of those people again. So don't stress over a guy you really dont know
2006-11-19 16:48:20 · answer #2 · answered by dcbossygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, this whole girl-around-the-guy-thing..i have the same exact problem!!! Thank God someone else has this problem. Just don't act llike your envious, cause thats a major turnoff. and DONT cry!. dont waste your feelings on someone who might not deserve you. Highschool is a bad time for relationships cause its based on your apperence and status. Just keep being comfortable with yourself, and someone'll come around.
2006-11-19 16:45:24 · answer #3 · answered by becca 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be either. I am in love with this boy, who I am pretty sure doesn't like me that way either. Have you told him how you feel? You could try that. Even if he doesn't like you like that, you will feel better knowing that you got it out.
If you don't get your feelings out, you will end up regretting it in the long run.
Good luck
2006-11-19 16:42:54 · answer #4 · answered by meganxrenee07 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for one pumkin you said you liked him but did he ever liked you back. Seems like he didn't because he's with someone else. I would get over him quick and find someone who loves you because you deserve it. and it's just an obsession.
2006-11-19 16:44:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel. Its the only way.
2006-11-19 16:41:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He got expelled, which means he's either a fool or a troublemaker. Give us more info please.
2006-11-19 16:42:05 · answer #7 · answered by vamedic4 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats called jealousy, probably cause you like him.
2006-11-19 16:43:30 · answer #8 · answered by Lfeata 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
muh
2006-11-19 16:43:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋