2006-11-19 08:37:14 · 22 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Let him know gently. I wouldn't suggest telling him that you're not attracted to him. Guys have very fragile egos. I would just let him know that you care for him a lot, but you feel that it's not working out for you (of course, that is, if you intend to break up with him). If you plan to stay with him, then it might be time to think about what attracted you to him in the first place, and how things have changed since you met.
2006-11-19 08:39:52 · answer #1 · answered by jae 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
aww, the honeymoon is over. I've had a few long term relationships and no matter how much ya love em there will be phases you go through where they just don't seem to do it for ya. Depends if your willing to wait for the sparks to return. Romantic getaways, tend to help
2006-11-19 16:44:04 · answer #2 · answered by CHRYSTAL I 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should be honest with him and let him know how you feel now and not mislead him. If there's no attraction now when you are dating, how do you think it will be when you get married? Do not waste his time and yours as you both can find somebody that you can be attracted to.
2006-11-19 16:48:19 · answer #3 · answered by lovelyeyes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you need to let him know because that's like saying buy me a car but you have to pay for it. You don't really love him, you probably don't want people to see alone. Just talk to him and tell him how you feel. Release the pigeon and let him fly
2006-11-19 16:41:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you can be nice about it and tell him that you just want to be really close friends instead of leading him on. A real friend would understand how you feel about a relationship.
2006-11-19 16:40:13 · answer #5 · answered by midnight princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break it off, and just be friends if it is possible. It isn't fair to both you and him. I think it is more detrimental to both parties when the relationship loses it's lustre, and you still stay together just because. it may turn into resentment down the road:(
2006-11-19 16:40:09 · answer #6 · answered by wherenai 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In love and loss there is dividing point between attraction and faithfulness. That is the point of choice.
2006-11-19 16:41:08 · answer #7 · answered by Drowningbluestars 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wait until he does something stupid so that will be your excuse to break up with him. Who knows he might be feeling the same way.
2006-11-19 16:47:17 · answer #8 · answered by Still_21_nheart 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is no big secret, afterall it is posted here. Tell him and let him know you would still like to be friends. You need to find someone who makes you happy. LL.
2006-11-19 16:40:14 · answer #9 · answered by italliansweety67 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do you want to work on this relationship? If you don't then do the right thing, and let him go.
2006-11-19 16:57:24 · answer #10 · answered by Poppet 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋