My m8s tell me that i am good looking and that it is not stupid to be a virgin but when they all have their b/f or g/f i feel so wierd, stupid and different!
I deperately want to meet someone cause i am fed up of being single and a virgin but i dont want to give it all up to the first bloke that comes along.
Any suggestions?
2006-11-19 08:24:21 · 14 answers · asked by nervous 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Please don't force the issue. If you seem desperate, women smell it and they run. Truly, get a book and read. Women love smart men.
2006-11-19 08:26:46 · answer #1 · answered by donewiththismess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nottin wrong wit been single and a virgin. Dont worry the right guy will some come along and when he does u will definitely know he is the right one. Jus be patience . And been a virgin is something u shuld be proud of cause it is a special thing and u would not want 2 give it 2 any1. Am 19 and am still a virgin and am proud 2 be one. It makes me feel special and also 2 know that it is sumthing i have been keepin 4 19yrs and i plan not 2 lose it until i am married. so u shuld be proud of urself and dont worry evry thing will fall in place.............. Hope my advice helps.
2006-11-19 08:34:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
first things first........ stop worrying so much about what other people think of you. just let go and accept things as they happen because they all happen for a reason.
second, try going to new places. like maybe one night go to a club and take a guy friend with you, but no girls allowed. who knows maybe by the end of the night you will find what you are looking for. if that doesnt work, try going to a local hot spot and just hangin out, meet some of the people who work there, or just introduce yourself to people who come in. make yourself known around where you live. and if all else fails, you can always go online, there is always someone online looking for you and you just dont know it till you find them.
third, there is absolutely nothing wrong with being a virgin. even if you are one and dont want to be, maybe you should rethink what you are looking for. truly great sex does not come from a one-night-stand.... if a girl is willing to give it up on the first night you meet her, she is probably not for you.
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2006-11-19 08:39:12 · answer #3 · answered by Jezyka Isabella 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know it's hard to accept but you're still very young. You have your whole life ahead of you. While it is painful sometimes to see others with b/f's or g/f"s when you don't have anyone in your life, you certainly don't want to give it up to a nobody. You don't know how lucky you are to be free to do as you choose. My daughter is 18 and still a virgin and she hasn't found that right person either. I can only say, in time, you will. Just enjoy your freedom and have fun.
2006-11-19 08:29:54 · answer #4 · answered by jare bare 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about anyone else. Just focus on your education. Its great that you are a virgin. My son, who is also 18, must be popular since he was nominated for homecoming king in his senior year. He has a lot of friends who are girls but he is not wanting to tie himself down with a girlfgriend. He also has a lot of guy friends. He is happy the way he is. You have to learn to work hard and enjoy life afterward.
2006-11-19 08:30:25 · answer #5 · answered by observer 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First , do you have any friends ? well go with friends and meet tnew people . its not bad to be a virgin. that is good. don't just have sex with anyone. find that special person to share it with. i lost my virginity at 15 but lucky he was the one and know im 18 and married to him . so find the man of your dreams before you do something stupid.
2006-11-19 08:28:54 · answer #6 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give yourself time. You'll know when you meet the right one. While you may be confused right now, you just need to do a bit of thinking. Are you straight, gay, pan, bi, auto, or even a? You'll know when you meet the right one, unless you're auto or a, of course.
Pansexual = Attracted to anything
Autosexual = Attracted to yourself only
Asexual = Not attracted to anything
2006-11-19 08:27:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest that you wait. Eventually, someone will come along who you are attracted to and want to be with. You obviously aren't in a place where sex is a high priority to you. That is a good thing in the sex-obsessed society in which we live. Please use this time to pursue your dreams and get yourself together, be it finding a career or going to school. Sex brings drama which can deter and distract you from where you need to be.
2006-11-19 08:30:42 · answer #8 · answered by Natchurley 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have years ahead of you. no need to sleep with someone just because you want to rid yourself of the "virgin" label.
Instead be proud of who you are. As a virgin you are not exposing yourself to STD's and have no risk of pregnancy....
Be patient, you are so young....the right person who is deserving of you will eventually come along.
2006-11-19 08:28:17 · answer #9 · answered by Vee 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i met my hubby when i wasnt looking anymroe, it just happened, i tried to fight it even...but it was something i didn't win =D
Don't go looking bc that has always blown up in peoples faces, in the long rn and short run. go out to places and keep having fun, somthn will happen. i was out with my girls, and met my hubby bc my frined wanted to hook up with his, and one of his friends wouldnt leave me alone, stupid jock, so he intervened....from there we talked and got to know each other more. Take it slow when u think you have found somthn too, be cautious just in case. If u want u can write me and tell me more, with more details, maybe i can say more. Good Luck
2006-11-19 08:31:14 · answer #10 · answered by harmonieclark 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get out there and FLIRT! you're not gonna meet someone in the matter of days. it takes time. go out with your friends and start talking to people. if you're interested exchange contact info and start from there. dont forget, single life is funner and you have more freedom.
2006-11-19 08:28:41 · answer #11 · answered by dinaopaopa 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋