we tryed to get back together my mother dose not like him and when she found out she rang him up and told him to keep away from me my boyfriend phoned me back and sayed he couldnt be with some one when her family dose have any respect for him what should i do and he has a friend that dosen wont to see me with him keeps telling lies
2006-11-19 08:23:52 · 14 answers · asked by hotmail 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
talk to your mother tell her you want to be with him and its none of her business what you do. but if thats the way he feels theres not much else you can do. and unless your mum stays outta it as well as everyone else then it looks like its doomed .sorry.
2006-11-19 08:28:35 · answer #1 · answered by Caz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mothers never like their daughter's boyfriends. I'd tell your Mum that you value her opinion, but it's not her job to manage your life or get involved in your relationships. No boyfriend would like to be rejected by their gf's Mum. Tell your Mum why you like him - perhaps she hasn't seen his good points.
Your boyfriend's best mate doesn't like it now you've come on the scene and taken his place as number 1 friend.
A relationship works if two people agree to be honest and face the world's problems together. It's you two against the world if need be. If you love him, then that's what matters. Don't let other people get in the way - just agree that you'll tackle these issues together. You'll come through this much stronger.
2006-11-19 08:32:35 · answer #2 · answered by Cracker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alright, think why should your mother control YOUR relationships, she shouldn't. I personally would scream at my mother like hell but i dont condone that. You just have to tell him that your own person and your mother has no say in your relationships and i still want to be with you, he should understand, but if he dont he aint worth the time really.
Good Luck
2006-11-19 08:33:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I knew my boyfriend for 4 days beforehand we began going out. we've been collectively for over 5 years now! :) It surely feels like love on the commencing up sight! Your guy sounds great so far. decide for it for specific!
2016-12-17 12:44:47 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if he is really the 1 you should tell every1 to keep out your business. If has ever done anything really bad to u then do stay away, other wise it is all your choice. Plus his friend is just jealous. My b/friend has a friend who is funny with me.
2006-11-19 08:28:16 · answer #5 · answered by claire d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I think you 2 should talk and either work things out not listening to what others have to say or just be friends and go seperate ways
2006-11-19 08:40:16 · answer #6 · answered by goodlookin.mama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay apart love, you both sound too young to be getting so serious. Learn a lesson here, its not easy!
2006-11-19 08:30:36 · answer #7 · answered by Lindan5 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he says that he cant be with u if ur family dont respect him than he isn't any good if u ask me. if he really liked you he wouldnt care wether or not ur family like and respect him
2006-11-19 08:29:07 · answer #8 · answered by ChRiS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to a school counselor or someone that is older and knows the both of you for help.
2006-11-19 08:27:38 · answer #9 · answered by rhonda_seiler 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
first of all if u ina relationship it dont matter bout ya family. if they dont like him they need to deal wit it because you want to be with him. u should tell him that and ya mom will have to live with it.
2006-11-19 08:29:38 · answer #10 · answered by NiCoYa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋