I first ask a question about what I should do concerning this guy I like (we were just flirting for teh past month) so, the advise I got was--CALL HIM, EMAIL HIM, NOW NOW NOW--DON'T WAIT, DO IT NOW!!! But, he didn't give me his email or phone #. So, what I did was google his name, found his email, then emailed him. To my surprise, he freaked out. I then asked Yahoo Answers what to do, and they said I shouldn't have done it in the first place, and to email him back saying I was sorry. I did, he emailed back saying 'forget it' but he now ignores me when I see him. I then asked Yahoo Answers (as if HE wrote it): "what do you think of this girl who googled me, emailed me that she did, and asked 'what's up'?" The people from Answers all said that the girl (meaning me) is a psycho stalker, and that he should leave her alone. I only like the guy, I didn't want to freak him out, and now he wants nothing to do with me. For what I did, is there something wrong with me? Am I psycho?!?
2006-11-19 08:17:29 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That sucks! And no, you are not sa "Physco Stalker" you took peoples advice, and followed it. Don't consider yourself a stalker, and don't listen to those people. Even though I think you should have listened to your heart.
Sam <3
2006-11-19 08:21:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The term "stalker" is very overrated. When I think of a stalker, I think of someone who is watching, or continuously bothering another person. For anyone to call you a psycho stalker for sending one email is crazy. He is apparently the psycho or whatever. Information is so readily available on anyone, it is not hard to get an email address, phone number or anything else for that matter. I wouldn't even waste my time trying to figure him out. He sounds very immature, and stupid.
2006-11-19 16:29:26 · answer #2 · answered by LORI H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When somebody does not reciprocate interest you should drop the notion that contact is appropriate. Also, you should take the advice given here (or professional or any other type of advice) as a suggestion and think it over before you act.
No you're not psycho. You just acted on advice that was probably not in your best interests. If interaction was desired a means for further contact would be available short of a search engine.
Forget it and move on.
2006-11-19 16:22:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you are not. You just did something that is considered socially unacceptable. He was a fool for saying email me phone me. Forget the guy. He was wrong. You are not a psycho stalker.
2006-11-19 16:21:07 · answer #4 · answered by JAM 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't think you are psycho, sounds to me like you saw something you wanted and you went for it, not only that, you used the resources that were available to you. We are taught that if we see something we want to go for it, if the guy got all freaked out about an email, then either he just dosent like you or he is a total wimp anyway. Maybe he should have just been flattered, and then told ya thanks but no thanks. Move on and find someone that appreciates you for your efforts.
2006-11-19 16:22:59 · answer #5 · answered by Harley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing wrong with you. and your not a stalker. sounds like he wanted to play with your emotions and now that you can easy email him he doesnt want to play. someone who talks a big game should have given you his email right off. find more open people and maybe you will find someone better than this player.
2006-11-19 16:28:15 · answer #6 · answered by Cornholio 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're no a psycho. Sounds like you just made a bad choice. I do however think you blew it with this guy. I'm sure there will be others. Live and learn :-)
2006-11-19 16:23:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you are not psyco!!You just like a guy.
For which I am proud of what you did.All you tried to do was ask him whats up.If he took it the wrong way then explain it to him.Explain I you simply google & got his email because you had no one else to talk too...It's not hard because I know from experience...I hope I helped...Best wishes.
2006-11-19 16:22:45 · answer #8 · answered by tpoof 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's freaked out by you what you have done completely invaded his personal space you have no right to feel bad you have done this to yourself. What you have done is no different then him calling all the people in the phone book with your last name to track you down it's creepy!
2006-11-19 16:21:30 · answer #9 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you blew it, so you made a mistake. Move on with your life and let this be a lesson to you, make your own decissions and do not be so swayed by the opinions of others.
2006-11-19 16:21:06 · answer #10 · answered by CindyLu 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋