I have been with my boyfriend for a year and almost 10 months. We used to get along great...always smiling & laughing. But now it seems like I have to work to make him even smile. We fight constantly (about anything & everything), & he's very jealous if I talk to other guys or hang out with my friends.
I want things to go back to the way they used to be, but it seems like no matter what, no matter how hard I try, nothing ever gets better. It feels like it keeps going farther & farther downhill.
What should I do? I've tried talking with him on the subject & we end up in an argument?
Help me!
2006-11-19 08:17:08 · 6 answers · asked by nkp225 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your situation seems oh so familiar to me. Sweetheart.... if there is any doubt about your relationship you must firstly talk to him! Since you've tried that and he's basically not into talking about it... maybe you should try ending it. Believe me it will save you some trouble/heartache down the road. When you tell him about your wanting to end it maybe he will see how serious you are about the situation... maybe not... and if he's not you'll know you did a good thing. If he says he wants to stay with you, the two of you must, must, must have communication and agree that he needs to stop being so jealous. Make sure he understands how you feel.
Good luck, I hope everything works out for you.
2006-11-19 08:27:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He have a problem with the people you hang around then he have a problem. But girl if y'all is always fighting and it seem you can't do anything to make him happy anymore then I will tell you just like to my friend "JUST TELL HIM YOU CAN'T TAKE IT ANYMORE AND THAT IT IS OVER." You should not have to try so hard to make someone happy if they don't want to be. If he can't love you the way he did before then tell him that it is over.
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2006-11-19 16:36:50 · answer #2 · answered by lil crazy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi there
maybe you should say you want time apart and see how he reacts, he might show how he really feels or he might argue with you then walk out and fone you later once he realises what he misses or worse case he might leave for good and if he does then maybe you can move on after you grieve for your lost as hes just not worth it,
i hope you get it sorted out one way or another
2006-11-19 16:25:26 · answer #3 · answered by lindayoung23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find someone new that will make you both happier. you want someone who can make you feel comforted all of the time. find someone who can trust you, and you can trust them just as much.
2006-11-19 16:21:33 · answer #4 · answered by jane 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jsut break up with him or take a break for awhile, then prolly you will realise what you both mean to each other, or break up with him
2006-11-19 16:22:20 · answer #5 · answered by ohhh lalalala 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I FEEL YOUR PAIN. MAYBE A TRIAL SEPARATION WOULD HELP OR COMPLETELY BREAK IT OFF. IT SOUNDS LIKE THINGS ARE NOT GOOD BETWEEN YOU. GOOD LUCK :-)
2006-11-19 16:21:50 · answer #6 · answered by Joe Prosnick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋