There was this guy I was dating for about 3 months. He and I broke up because he had started seeing an older women. Well, I ended up talking to his best friend about things and eventually I fell for him. Well, now my boyfriend wants me back but I'm seeing his friend(who is in iraq). He knows I'm with his friend because we both informed him. Now I don't know who to chose because I still have feelings for my boyfriend but I'm falling deep for his friend in Iraq! Help!!! Help!! Help!!!
2006-11-19 08:14:02 · 10 answers · asked by askandilltell 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should follow your heart but I really think you should give the brave man in Iraq someone to come home to that loves him.I hope you don't break up with him while he's over there.Your ex dumped you once.He may do it again.I hope your not talking about my grandson in Iraq.
2006-11-19 08:22:21 · answer #1 · answered by I'm Jerry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm going to be absolutely direct with you but don't think I'm being too harsh, ok?
Why would you go back to the same guy who dumped you for someone else??? And after only 3 months, too???
I hope you see that a guy like that doesn't deserve to be in a real relationship, which I assume is what you want. Now, I'm not saying the best friend is any better--but I assume that YOU know he is better. I don't know this guy at all. It could be that he's just the same as the other guy. So weigh your decisions carefully, but I think going back to the old boyfriend is... not so great. I mean, he didn't even date you long enough for you to call him your boyfriend!
Good luck~
2006-11-19 08:24:29 · answer #2 · answered by calamityjanedoe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay with the guy in iraq... the other guy left you for someone else... why would you want him back after that? i would have felt that i wasnt good enough and thats why he left. besides, you already know how this guy is, dont put yourself in a position to get hurt again by the same person. thats not fun.
2006-11-19 08:17:50 · answer #3 · answered by somebody whispering 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Morally I have to say, stick with your current boy in Iraq. You obviously like him more, and besides it would be so sad for that man to come home from a war to find his girlfriend back with her ex and his bestfriend. It would just suck, stick with your boy in Iraq
2006-11-19 08:18:36 · answer #4 · answered by Azena 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay with the one that is in iraq, you made your mind up already.
2006-11-19 08:18:23 · answer #5 · answered by [quarantine] 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave the past in the past and stick with the new guy. He's over there risking his life. How cool would it be for him to have you to come back to.
2006-11-19 08:18:17 · answer #6 · answered by jare bare 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first guy probably finds you more attractive now that you aren't available. I'd stay with the one you got now.
2006-11-19 08:17:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
neither of them. take some time without seeing or talking to either of them and things will all fall into place.
2006-11-19 08:17:58 · answer #8 · answered by crzy_11 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe when he gets back from Iraq, get wit him.
See how it goes.
2006-11-19 08:18:41 · answer #9 · answered by kurticus1024 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They always want what they don't have
He realizes what he's missing out on and is jealous. Stay where you're at. He started it his loss.
2006-11-19 08:21:02 · answer #10 · answered by sxyalmond 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋