i had this boyfriend that i loved so much but when we made a year in our relationship he cheated we broke up then he became a dog he still calls me and we still talk on the phone but he threatens to hurt me when he finds that i dated others guys after him and he ask me to be with him and he sits outside my house just to make sure im not with anyone at my house does he love me or just being stupid we been through alote of things and we had sex but does he love me?
2006-11-19 08:11:14 · 10 answers · asked by gcmscheer2 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No. A person that behaves like this doesn't understand the feeling of love.
HIS IS AN OBSESSIVE ABUSIVE STALKER!
If you live with your parents TELL THEM and get a retraining order.
If you go back him him i 100% guarantee that he will continue to be abusive.
THIS IS A VERY DANGEROUS SITUATION! Please take it seriously and get help.
2006-11-19 08:15:13 · answer #1 · answered by Vee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if he likes other girls, and says he loves you, then that's weird. That's like middle-schoolish. Like sorta what my little brother is going through, except I don't really think that's love. But he had this girlfriend and she likes other guys so he broke up with her cuz she liked him and other guys. But if your guy is doing all that stuff, and he isn't still liking other girls, than maybe he loves you. But if he's doing that and he does like other girls, than maybe he's just being stupid.
2006-11-19 08:16:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anyone who threatens to hurt you probably doesnt care about you but If he cares that much then he probably is still in love with him. Talk to him and ask him why he cheated on you and if this guy doesnt back off dont let him control you. Go get yourself someone.
2006-11-19 08:17:09 · answer #3 · answered by ~*mwah*~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen sweetheart .. As a man, I'd **** any chick that wants to give it up especially if she's hot.
It has nothing to do with love .. it's all about sex.
After she gives me that ***, it's all good and go back to my lady with my dick wiped clean.
Dont' trust men.
2006-11-19 08:14:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obsessed is more like it.. True love doesn't have these boundaries or fears... In fact... Call the cops for stalking..
2006-11-19 08:13:51 · answer #5 · answered by Adam W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he;s being controlling and stupied.
ditch him.
you need ur space.
he can date other girls why can;t you date other guys?
ur a woman you have to be independent ur not his slave
and you know if he's threatening you.
take action .
put ur foot down..
down his throat.
kiddind abotu the down his throat part
but seriously this could hold you back fromgreat things.
its ur choice.
i think in a way he loves you.
but in a way his not loving you the right way.
the right way is he wants you to be happy
he's holding you back from ur happiness and thats not really a good thing.
and um no offense but him waiting for outside ur house etc... thats wat we call stalking.
and he's a dog.. so really i wonder wat "love" really means to him.
2006-11-19 08:15:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he might but he sounds more like a hazard to your health.get a restraining order; he's threatened you and is (by the sound of it)stalking you. besides if he cheated he has no right to tell you you can't date
2006-11-19 08:14:22 · answer #7 · answered by kattz1111 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is just a very jealous person .
he has no right of being outside of your house watching you.
you can phone the police on him
and i would .
this will never work out between you two
you must tell him to get lost
2006-11-19 08:17:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is not love in any way shape or form. He sounds controling which could result in abuse. I would distance myself from him if I were you.
2006-11-19 08:15:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any one who threatens to hurt you should be reported immediately and you should stay completely away from him. Period.
2006-11-19 08:13:15 · answer #10 · answered by Isis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋