After dating several LOSERS... I have come up with a list of requirements and 1. wanted to know if I left anything out and 2. is it really that crazy to ask this of a potential mate or would I be crazy not to??
1. Credit Check
2. Debt Check
3. Background check
4. Crazy Ex Check
5. Kid Check
6. Vanity Check
7. Fertility Check
8. Drug Test
9. Drama Check
10. Fidelity / Wife Check
11. STD Check
12. Crazy Parent Check
13. Job Stability/ Longevity Check
2006-11-19 08:04:48 · 14 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I should have added a little more here. I have worked VERY HARD to make my credit spotless. I am 24 and have alreadly bought my first house and besides my house and a little left on my car, I am totally DEBT FREE! I am not a gold digger, I just dont want to CARRY or SUPPORT ANYONE!! I would NOT mind at all supplying official documentation for the list.
2006-11-19 08:24:29 · update #1
I did forget religion compatabilty and sexual orientation. And as far as pets, Dogs only!!I need all of these requirements met. Why settle? I would rather be single then settle.
2006-11-19 08:31:31 · update #2
I did forget religion compatabilty and sexual orientation. And as far as pets, Dogs only!! I need all of these requirements met. Why settle? I would rather be single then settle.
2006-11-19 08:31:52 · update #3
14. AIDS Check
14. Brain Check
15. Goals Check
16. Sociological Check
17. Sexual orientation Check
What kind of document you can provide about yourself to answer the question
2006-11-19 08:16:40 · answer #1 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your list is good I would add a criminal check and Aids/Hiv to the list just because a routine Std check does not cover these areas. I would also ask for a list of ex GF's to find out who dumped who and why if he is willing? How many sexual partners has he had? Has he always used protection. Has he ever been involved with another guy. Does he want kids if that is something you wan't?
2006-11-19 08:12:35 · answer #2 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you're planning on getting serious with or marrying this guy then I'd hope you know these things. For casual dating, this might be overkill. If you do decide to impliment the list, I'd do it gradually after you've seen him a few times, otherwise he'll probably run and think you're nuts. Would you have a problem with any sort of pet?
2006-11-19 08:16:10 · answer #3 · answered by K S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is an old saying that my Grandmother used to tell me. It goes "Summer and Winter him". What that means is know, really know, a man for at least a year before marrying him. By the end of that year, you should have answers to all your question. By the way, I absolutely love your list, and may use it in the future!!
2006-11-19 08:10:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What's the acceptable ratio... like how many out of the 13 is required of them.. 5 out of 13 .. 8 ? is it rated from most important to less.. ?
2006-11-19 08:10:04 · answer #5 · answered by Samantha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No not at all ...Have your secretary type the list up and you pass them out to potential dates But remember your potential may have a similiar list for you to fill out!!
2006-11-19 08:09:15 · answer #6 · answered by southernn_sky_2020 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I sure wouldn't want a girl asking me all that.I have nothing to hide,If you do not trust the person they may give you the answers but are they truthful
2006-11-19 08:10:10 · answer #7 · answered by I'm Jerry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I assume you would be agreeable with having the potential partner do this same check on you, right?
2006-11-19 08:07:33 · answer #8 · answered by missingora 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel you on all of that. But bottom line. How do you ask someone to give all of these things when you are just getting to know them. Now, if your talking marriage then ABSOLUTELY...
2006-11-19 08:07:17 · answer #9 · answered by Sexcchick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Add Aids/HIV check
(not only sexually transmitted, ergo does not fall under STD umbrella)
2006-11-19 08:11:02 · answer #10 · answered by ebony0806 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋