My (over a year long) crush thinks my best friend is hot. I'm taking 3 AP's and my grades are going down the drain. I feel super ugly and not worth anyone's time and all my physical insecurities have come out. I have a headache from my braces being tightened. I think I'm depressed, but my parents won't believe me. The only thing keeping me alive right now is excercise, and that high won't even last for more than 10 hrs. HELP!
2006-11-19 08:04:18 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
Plus, I'm paranoid I'm going to end up alone. I'm sixteen, and haven't even had my first kiss.
2006-11-19 08:06:45 · update #1
you my dear are going through the process of growing up. after being a child you have suddenly found the world outside is big and everyone has problems of one sort or another, if your parents won't believe how you are feeling have you another relative you can confide in?as for your first kiss I was 17 when I had mine, and we were married 2 years later which lasted for 35 yrs. till he passed away. you are a very worthwhile person in this world, you seem a very kind and caring person, good luck.
2006-11-19 11:29:51 · answer #1 · answered by poetrygirl on line 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone has feelings of depression sometimes, but you have to power to make most of them go away. It sounds like these ones are serious enough that you need some help. Talking to someone may be enough, but if they're really bad you might have to take some meds. I would say talk to someone - anyone - that you trust about how you are feeling. People will listen to you, you are definately NOT alone. If your parents won't believe you that you are feeling depressed then a teacher or friend might be better. If you talk to your teacher they might send you to the school counselor, but that's ok because they will be able to evaluate whether or not you really do have depression or whether you are just feeling depressed. If they think it's serious they will contact your parents and let them know that you are going to need some help. Your parents will believe the counselor if s/he does contact them. If you are feeling like you need to hurt yourself, or that the only way out of these feelings is death then you need to get some help right away. hopeline.com is a good resource if you need some help imediately. They can help you make sense of what you're feeling and help you find ways out. If excercise is helping then keep doing it, but it sounds like you're needing something else as well. Just don't give up yet because you have a lot of life left in you.
2006-11-19 08:50:41 · answer #2 · answered by starr_wix_wickens_aka.starreyes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm a 17 year previous guy and in actuality contained in the comparable place you're, heck im even takin 3 AP's lol. you may desire to realize nonetheless which you're basically sixteen and that there is a brilliant sort of time to make something ensue. And if human beings say no or do unlike then you there is nothin you're able to do approximately it. you basically upward push up and shop movin on.
2016-10-04 03:38:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you just need to take a step back and breathe. Think about whats important to you. I'm sure that there are plenty of other cute guys that you can like. For that headache, take some advil, trust me, it totally helps. Just keep on excersising and mabey find somethings to take your mind off of things!
2006-11-19 08:22:10 · answer #4 · answered by lindsay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
babe your grow up to be a princess trust me i was so ugly n plain believe me but now with different hair my teeth styraightened n lost wait well i think im a babe!1 lol some cute guy will turn up out the blue trust me after all your only 16 so dont panic youve lots of time xx
2006-11-19 08:10:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go to the doctor and tell him/her about how you feel. Don't let your parents get away with telling you how you feel. Your friends aren't worth feeling like this...maybe some new friends are in order. I'm certain you aren't ugly.
2006-11-19 08:15:54 · answer #6 · answered by DeborahDel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you need to like get a therapist or something. I'm not saying you're like CRAZY, but I do understand what you're going through. My parents didn't belive me when I told them I was deppressed,then i got a therapist and was diagnosed with severe deppression. So take my advice. HOPE THAT HELPS!
2006-11-19 08:08:15 · answer #7 · answered by Hazeleyedbri 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That sounds like totally normal teenage angst. What you are going through is universal and everyone feels ugly and stupid and like they don't fit in. That is why most people hated high school and you couldn't pay most adults to be teenagers again.
Good luck, kid!
2006-11-19 08:12:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to some trusted people, even the school counselor. You're definitely depressed, or borderline.
2006-11-19 08:07:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm 25 and still have not found a girl. wow. so just try to love you. try more-selfesteem.com. and innerself.com plus selfgrowth.com. call 1800 lifenet if you feel stressed or try me dogmicjoe@yahoo.com if u want advice.
2006-11-19 16:04:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋