First of all i am a nympho!! when I am with some one (in a relationship.) I have this urge to always want to have sex and some times i think it annoys my partner. But i feel that I cannot cheat on the other person just becuz i need sex, its my bad hormones. Secondly I love this guy ive known for 5 years and for 2 of them years we were not talking but now we are and when we do he makes me feel like there is nobody else and i have told him this but i dont want to be too much of a push over .Then I have this last problem well for some reason that is very eerie to me i cannot be alone i gotta be with some body or i will feel lost but at the same time i am picky about who i am with.and when i go through boyfriends and girlfriends which is rare, the person hurts me orbetrays me and then i use another person to cover for that pain cuz i dont know how to deal with herat ache except overeating or not eating and sleeping at all and then i get sick. ANY UNHARSH ADVICE?
2006-11-19 08:03:38 · 6 answers · asked by Mizz Lady 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I dont ask the partner I am with to always have sex wiith me I feel it would cause more problems but I do touch,feel, lick and suck their spots to let them know what I want. Its not like I am a everyday all day freak just more than normal
2006-11-19 08:53:27 · update #1
Can't tell by your post how old you are but either way...sounds like you would benefit from speaking with someone in the professional medical field...you have what I would class as self esteem issues (don't mean that derogatorily, almost everyone has some), but you are battling them in two different ways...the overly sexual way which is telling yourself you are desirable and deserving and the other that is petrified of getting hurt or brushed off.
If you are still in school...speak with the Health official...she can help you get to the inner portion of things even if it is by only referring you to a Psychologist.
If not in school...talk with your doctor and be frank and candid about it all...he then can refer you to the best professional to assist you to get YOU liking you and thus then able to know it's okay to be your own best company sometimes.
Possibly you've had departures in your life (parent, friends) that have really hit you hard even tho you don't acknowledge the losses as being so tough. These issues are obviously weighing on you and it's not necessary for you to have to live daily with pain that really can be freed to allow you to live happily and from restraint.
You might now want to deal with a psychological level or professional but to correct things on your own will take a lot of hard work and sometimes we can be far too rough on ourselves to be anything but our own worst enemy.
Bluntly put, if it affects the way you are living your life...it must be dealt with and calling in people to help you deal with it is the fastest way to get where you want to be .... happy, independent, confident and true to who you are and being able to accept you.
Good luck
2006-11-19 08:16:10 · answer #1 · answered by dustiiart 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow...It's ok to want to have sex wit someone...but all the time... Try focusing on a better pasion...lol... It possibly does annoy them... I mean it annoys me when my bf talks about stuff like that to much... Look if U love this guy you have to show him in a romatic way so it doesn't seem so pushy...After five years I think U should know what he likes...Thake him to his favorite place... If U R afraid to be alone then this is your chance to try and make a love connection...If people want to betray you then drop them hard... fight fire wit fire...Lean on a best friend or the guy u are in love wit...U shouldn't beat yourself up for someone else ever...U R worth more than that... I hope this helps!
2006-11-19 08:17:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have some emotional issues that need to be addressed by a professional. Please contact your local mental health clinic and get someone you can talk with who can help you deal with your issues of insecurity and unhappiness. Life can be much better if you deal with these problems now. Good luck.
2006-11-19 08:10:08 · answer #3 · answered by missingora 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I LIKE NYMPHOS. IF YOU'RE OVER 21 LET'S TALK SOME MORE!
2006-11-19 08:05:55 · answer #4 · answered by Joe Prosnick 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well, if you don't want me to help you physically, then you should get a vibrator
2006-11-19 08:10:12 · answer #5 · answered by onelonevoice 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One word .. Dildo
2006-11-19 08:06:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋